Crystalicequeen123
Well-Known Member
....you're dressed up? Or when you're dressed down??
I swear I've been noticing that it seems like more men tend to approach me when I'm dressed DOWN as opposed to when I'm dressed up to the hilt! It's really weird! Like, for example when I'm going to the store with my hair in a bun, flip flops, jeans and a tee-shirt, or when I'm out sweating in the hot sun working on a construction site I tend to get more men talking/or approaching me (or making conversations).
But when I'm out with girl friends on a night out in the town, or dressed really REALLY nicely for a nice special occasion or party, I get little if ANY males approaching!
Even when I'm looking "bummy", I've noticed a difference in the WAY the men will approach me too. For example, when I"m dressed DOWN, guys will actually come up to me and TALK to me and start a normal conversation. When I'm dressed up, I still get men approaching me I guess, but it's very little and the men seem to just make cat calls, or say little "holla" words to get my attention, but they don't actually strike up a REAL meaningful conversation.
What gives?? I don't get it?
Have any of you ladies noticed a difference in male attention or approaching styles when you're dressed up vs. dressed down?? Plz share!
I swear I've been noticing that it seems like more men tend to approach me when I'm dressed DOWN as opposed to when I'm dressed up to the hilt! It's really weird! Like, for example when I'm going to the store with my hair in a bun, flip flops, jeans and a tee-shirt, or when I'm out sweating in the hot sun working on a construction site I tend to get more men talking/or approaching me (or making conversations).
But when I'm out with girl friends on a night out in the town, or dressed really REALLY nicely for a nice special occasion or party, I get little if ANY males approaching!
Even when I'm looking "bummy", I've noticed a difference in the WAY the men will approach me too. For example, when I"m dressed DOWN, guys will actually come up to me and TALK to me and start a normal conversation. When I'm dressed up, I still get men approaching me I guess, but it's very little and the men seem to just make cat calls, or say little "holla" words to get my attention, but they don't actually strike up a REAL meaningful conversation.
What gives?? I don't get it?
Have any of you ladies noticed a difference in male attention or approaching styles when you're dressed up vs. dressed down?? Plz share!