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TwistNMx
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JamericanGurl said:Well you got me cuz I sure did send an SOS to Roz.
But were you really joking? Cuz honestly, I've heard simlar for real statements before and at this point ....I'm no longer surprised.
But I showl was gonna ask Roz to have a little convo with you
Show yourself!
Are you sure you aren't shocked anymore....LOL
I'm going out to dinner with some friends now for my birthday.
See you soon.
HP
JamericanGurl
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I'm still like huh? Bye girl enjoy your B-DayHigh Priestess said:Show yourself!
Are you sure you aren't shocked anymore....LOL
I'm going out to dinner with some friends now for my birthday.
See you soon.
HP
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UmSumayyah
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It's an interesting idea. I can't speak to it from personal exp. 'cause all of the bw I know married to wm are middle class, college educated, never been on welfare.
pebbles
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JamericanGurl said:Well you got me cuz I sure did send an SOS to Roz.
But were you really joking? Cuz honestly, I've heard simlar for real statements before and at this point ....I'm no longer surprised.
But I showl was gonna ask Roz to have a little convo with you
LOL!! Thank goodness it was a joke!
crlsweetie912
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http://www.topix.net/afam/T6UO681HT2UA6ADF1/p2
This is an interesting discussion with views from both sides.
I am black and I have NEVER been approached by anyone other than a Black man. So I can't really say what I would do. But if a white man approched me and treated me with respect and care, why shouldn't I date him? I wouldn't make it my mission in life to date a white guy, I don't really feel there's a difference, white or black.
This is an interesting discussion with views from both sides.
I am black and I have NEVER been approached by anyone other than a Black man. So I can't really say what I would do. But if a white man approched me and treated me with respect and care, why shouldn't I date him? I wouldn't make it my mission in life to date a white guy, I don't really feel there's a difference, white or black.
firecracker
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High Priestess said:
I'm not mad at ya'll's understanding but maybe that understanding is due to the negative view of the skin you reside in.
How the helz you gon make a blanket statement about dating any one individual race is truly beyond me but I guess your life experiences have jaded your view of black men as a whole. Keep loving wyte exclusively
Mynappturalme
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To each his own. I think if you find love and respect, it doesnt matter the color. I personally am not attracted to men of other races. I have been approached by men of all races just about but have never been attracted to them in any way.
I have had bad and good experiences with black men and I love them, I learned something from each of them and do not regret my experiences with any of them. There are plenty of good black men out there, the ones that I met were not good for me. Maybe someone else. But I do love my brothas.
I love the way they talk, walk, greet one another, dance...whew I could go on. I am college educated, a home owner, and working toward a masters and my man is not. He does not have a problem with it and neither do I. I may not date outside of my race, but I will not limit myself to only a black man that is college educated etc. just because I am. This man treats me like a true Queen and I treat him as my King.
Some may say that I am limiting myself because I will not date outside of my race, maybe, maybe not. I just have never been attracted to them (white men, asian men, etc.) in any way.
As far as a blog or a website for white men who are interested in black women. Well, I am sure that it is out there somewhere. If you look at movies and and shows these days, (Hitch, save the last dance, the last two shows with Taye Diggs, etc.) The women are always white or non black with the black man. It's like they are saying that we (black women) are not good enough. Everyone else is sexy and exotic but black women (that's what it seems like they are saying to me).
So, I dont think that there is going to be a big thing for a blog about white men that are interested in black women. Just my opinion. Not to say they are not interested though. I did not like the movie Something New, to me it seemed as if they were saying that black men were not good enough. That you will only "live" if you date a white man as if they will be our saving grace.
Rozlips, your book sounds interesting, on my way to amazon to pick it up. Keep up the good work
I have had bad and good experiences with black men and I love them, I learned something from each of them and do not regret my experiences with any of them. There are plenty of good black men out there, the ones that I met were not good for me. Maybe someone else. But I do love my brothas.
I love the way they talk, walk, greet one another, dance...whew I could go on. I am college educated, a home owner, and working toward a masters and my man is not. He does not have a problem with it and neither do I. I may not date outside of my race, but I will not limit myself to only a black man that is college educated etc. just because I am. This man treats me like a true Queen and I treat him as my King.
Some may say that I am limiting myself because I will not date outside of my race, maybe, maybe not. I just have never been attracted to them (white men, asian men, etc.) in any way.
As far as a blog or a website for white men who are interested in black women. Well, I am sure that it is out there somewhere. If you look at movies and and shows these days, (Hitch, save the last dance, the last two shows with Taye Diggs, etc.) The women are always white or non black with the black man. It's like they are saying that we (black women) are not good enough. Everyone else is sexy and exotic but black women (that's what it seems like they are saying to me).
So, I dont think that there is going to be a big thing for a blog about white men that are interested in black women. Just my opinion. Not to say they are not interested though. I did not like the movie Something New, to me it seemed as if they were saying that black men were not good enough. That you will only "live" if you date a white man as if they will be our saving grace.
Rozlips, your book sounds interesting, on my way to amazon to pick it up. Keep up the good work
CurleeDST
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Men are all the same if you ask me. I am not enamored with dating men who are not AA. I do not have a fantasy worldview that they are better, richer, have better moral standards or high characters just because they aren't black.
Men can be DOGS just like women! One woman's prince is another woman's Fido. It just depends on where the man is at when you meet him. If a man doesn't want a relationship (white/black/yellow/brown) he won't commit to one. If a man has an ideal woman he wants to be with (and she ain't you) not much you can really do to change that.
But to sit here and start a webpage dedicated to dating white men? To each his own. I do not think anythign really when I see black women with white men just like I don't really care when I see black men with white women. I just do not care b/c if I spend too much time worrying about that I would not have found the love of my life.
Live and let live - it really isn't that important.
Men can be DOGS just like women! One woman's prince is another woman's Fido. It just depends on where the man is at when you meet him. If a man doesn't want a relationship (white/black/yellow/brown) he won't commit to one. If a man has an ideal woman he wants to be with (and she ain't you) not much you can really do to change that.
But to sit here and start a webpage dedicated to dating white men? To each his own. I do not think anythign really when I see black women with white men just like I don't really care when I see black men with white women. I just do not care b/c if I spend too much time worrying about that I would not have found the love of my life.
Live and let live - it really isn't that important.
CurleeDST
Well-Known Member
OH MY goodness!
firecracker said:Puck a wyte man
Uh oh I forgot I already did but his body/skin had a oh so odd different unappealing sweaty scent. I think it was missing that black mandingo warrior scent.
Folks need to date whoever, whatever and however they want but damn those desperado online I wanna/needa wyte man and man in general ad's to helz!
Attracting and developing a relationship with a decent educated loving man cannot be that damn hard unless your not willing to venture out or you kinda ugly inside and out. That ugly inside may just be pucking up your man magnet aura so it should be worked on first anyways.
UmSumayyah
Well-Known Member
Roz, one of the wm with a black gf has responded to your posts over on evia's blog.
TwistNMx
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firecracker said:I'm not mad at ya'll's understanding but maybe that understanding is due to the negative view of the skin you reside in.
How the helz you gon make a blanket statement about dating any one individual race is truly beyond me but I guess your life experiences have jaded your view of black men as a whole. Keep loving wyte exclusively
Oh, get a life and grow up!
You are "way" out of line here, and have surely missed the mark.
Obviously you are in a bubble if that's what you think! FYI, I'm pretty secure with my beauty...Thank you!!!
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Amour
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tiffcurl said:this is interesting. thanks for posting. I sent the links to three of my friends--two prefer to date only white men and me and my other friend are reluctant about it. i just recently went on a date with a white guy. i've always held out for a black man and made statements that "I would NEVER date a white man. . ." but I took a chance with a white guy and had so much fun. He asked me if I had dated a white guy before. when I said no, he seemed a bit "hurt" and asked why. I told him mostly because they didn't approach me, but that was a fib because many have and those that give me those long stares, I usually make it very obvious that I'm not interested. I'll be very cold, aloof or will avoid eye contact. My date told me that many of his white friends want to date black women but don't know how to go about approaching it. He said that he often encourages many of them to do so. I thought that was interesting getting it from a live in my face white man. He was sincere and that really helped to change my perspective. I don't want to feel limited by anything and although I LOVE Black men and that's my preference, I refuse to wait around and feel embarrassed about why I feel the urge to go rock climbing or why I speak a certain way. I really want to be open to as many positive experiences as possible, so I'm open to whomever is open to what the world has to offer.[/quote]
im tipsy but I totally feel you on the bolded. im happy with my black man, but of I wasn't with him or if we ever broke up, I would try seeing what a white man has to offer, although it would be very hard. I think I understand what the OP has to say about, and agree with it. Ok im tipsy so i hope that makes sense, would love to go deep into my issue, but circumstances permit
Bronzedmuse
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http://www.bookpump.com/upb/pdf-b/1128002b.pdfrozlips said:
The link I provided is not a blog or an article but the first 25 pages of a book titled The Interracial Dating Book for Black Women Who Want to Date White Men. It was written by a white man to encourage black women to open up their minds to the possibility of dating white men. I found the first 25 pages interesting so I paid for the pass word to read the entire book. I am happy with my decision to pay for the pass word.
mimi
New Member
Personally I find my self more attracted to black men but there are a good number of men that I've been attracted to that have not been black. I will not rule out IR dating as an option because a man is man, is a man! However I do have a bad habit of avoiding eye contact with men of other races that I catch checking me out, and I'm going to stop that as of now. Every man deserves a chance to prove himself worthy of any women. I think part of the reason for my being hesitant is that I always feel as if any man that is attracted to me but not black is only looking to fulfill some exotic fantasy and then throw me out like yesterdays garbage. I know that's not true for all non-black men so I'll try to be a little more open minded.
firecracker
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High Priestess said:
Ok down Fido. I am damn grown LOL. You can't take a joke but you can sure put one out there. Get over it! We all know beauty and security is subjective. 
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