Don't feel bad.....my hair is exactly the same. Aussie Moist is another one....it gave me major slip and detangling though, but within 48 hours my hair was dry as hay. I also tried LeKair cholesterol for my 8 months of newgrowth and again, awesome slip and moisture but LAWD I got the worse case of cystic acne around my hairline, especially my nape. OMG so painful....my poor follicles were so clogged. For some people, silicones, mineral oil, petroleum, and lanolin really are hair and scalp killers; though I suspect its mostly allergy-prone people like myself.
I've always gotten great slip and moisture from Elucence MBC, Hairveda Sitrillinah, Giovanni, and Trader Joes Tea Tree Tingle and Nourish Spa condishes. But AO Honeysuckle Rose mixed with honey and oils is the only thing that ever managed to detangle my hair effortlessly so that I wasn't ripping out the two textures. The slip is incredible. Covering my dry or wet hair with HV Cocasta oil before applying condish also helps up the slippage.