YESSS. Why are the married men so thirsty for friendly women? The single men are more cautious I have found. One guy gave me his number. I asked if he was married and he said yes but she has a boyfriend. erplexed And get this, he already has another woman on the side. He was trying to make me #2.
Thank you for being honest Barbie.
The bolded is something I have thought as well, but with men with girlfriends not wives. (I still won't touch them either.)
I figure he decides the man he wants to be and it's his relationship not mine.
But on the other hand I also think I am a participant in hurting someone else.
Is this not a moral dilemma.
If you don't mind me asking, how did it end?
I'd run far away. Run for the mountains....!
What say you?
Would love to here from the resident LHCF side pieces especially.
I don't want to be THAT girl.
But since all I run into are horny married men, I have been pondering this question for myself. erplexed
What say you?
Would love to here from the resident LHCF side pieces especially.
I love when the gas stove is on in a thread and @barbiesocialite just comes and throws a lit match on that ish
Only for Christians though...
YESSS. Why are the married men so thirsty for friendly women? The single men are more cautious I have found. One guy gave me his number. I asked if he was married and he said yes but she has a boyfriend. erplexed And get this, he already has another woman on the side. He was trying to make me #2.
Why are you only running into horny, married, men? I wonder if you are attracting men that view you as having low self-esteem or confidence and want to use you? Very telling.
Successful Mistresses don't need to take the man. Just his money. Man in this situation should be seen as a fun job to stack coins not permanent. I'd rather build a bag collection and see them 3 times a month than have full custody
I couldn't. Not really a moral dilemma for me. I just don't like to knowingly put myself in situations where I could end up on the Next 48 or Snapped or Inside Edition, etc. I don't want to get caught up in anyone's "War of Roses". You never know what type bullisht people have going on. I feel like if I were to ever take on the role of mistress, I would have to focus all of my attention on him and keep tabs on his wife. Lest I slip up and end up with my throat slit.
I just... I know how I would be if my future husband had a mistress. It wouldn't end pretty.
I remember a mistress telling me that she could smell the wife on her lover.
She was talking the truth It's like the wife was emanating from his skin like alcohol does with alcoholics. Even though he showers twice a day. Sometimes it's masked with heavy cologne. But if you are together long enough you may eventually smell her.
One of the disgusting parts of being a mistress or side piece. Or one way of finding out you are not the main chick.
Only for Christians though...
Successful Mistresses don't need to take the man. Just his money. Man in this situation should be seen as a fun job to stack coins not permanent. I'd rather build a bag collection and see them 3 times a month than have full custody
I can't believe this is even a topic. On one hand we complain about absent fathers, broken marriages, and single parent households caused by infidelity, what a shame it is, and how it is effecting the black community and our off spring but on the other hand we are saying we don't mind being side hoes and if he is cheating or not is him and his wife's business. I'm not going to spare any ones feeling or be PC. Knowingly participating in a side relationship for money and sex is straight up trashy. What about the wife/husband? What about possible std's? What about their union? Do vows mean so little today? What about the kids/ family? What about the people that would get hurt? Do y'all have no shame? So what he was looking for a** outside his marriage. Just because he is a cheater doesn't mean it's okay to indulge as well. The same women advocating being side hoes are the same who are going to be distraught once they get married or in a committed relationship and find their man has been sleeping with every jane that gave him the eye. Close your legs to married men! Doesn't any one value marriage and commitment anymore?
You can stay married forever and have a mistress. That used to be a time honored tradition. Not saying it's right just saying that's history.
Infidelity is not a valid reason to divorce or break up a family. nope. That's why it's important to be discerning and choose wisely. Some women were SOL before he even proposed, they married him anyway. Others need to be realistic, is it til death do us part? or is it until he cheats or hurts my feelings? both are an individual's pejorative, people should just be honest and realistic with themselves in advance. no one can predict the future. you can't control other people. life changes. people changes. it's not always everything we like. so if the perfect man who was faithful for 20 years unexpectedly cheats, either you leave or stay. No one else is responsible for your marriage but the two people in it.
Spoken like an old married lady, lol.