There are certain things you don't get over. Your husband allowing you to live in a shelter is one of them. I couldn't forgive my husband for letting that happen. Like 20 years later I would still be pissed. But maybe that's just me.
Also if it were me I'd sell some of his stuff and use the money to stay in a hotel. Ain't no way in hell I'd stay in a shelter and I'm married. No way. I'd rather he be pissed 20 years later that I sold his leather coat and Jordan's than me mad about staying in a shelter.
I don't think I would be able to respect him.
This! I just don't understand it. I normally do not post in relationship threads (maybe one or two posts here and there) but reading this truly upset me. Original poster, wherever you are right now I hope you are safe.Ain't no way on God's green earth, would I be moving in a shelter while my husband had a paycheck that could cover my expenses.
Any man that would allow his wife to move into a shelter even for one night while he has the means to take care of her is despicable. If he's comfortable with you living there OP, I say get the divorce.
^^^this right here... i wanted to say something when this thread was 1st posted but i decided to zip it... separated... are you fcuking kidding me!I'm still confused as to why the huby thinks being in "training" means "separated, as in he is not responsible for you.
ThatJerseyGirl*sighs* imma wait til i get home and post cuz see, right now da hubby drivin and he cant drive and its rainin...plus he done pissed me off.....he sittin ova there drivin lookin like a gotdayum crash dummy n shy * looks ova at him n rolls my eyes*
Plus i gotta keep my eyes on da road wif da crash dummy. And on top of dat dis same said dummy bought me newport regulas, not newport one hunnits....bama.
So imma hafta get back witchall n keep my eyes on da road AND i gotta make a stop at da licka sto.
*ramblin...i done took n told dis fool to pump da breaks n slow down*
OP, I hope you didn't actually have to check into the shelter, and that you found alternate housing (i.e. a temporary rental). You husband sounds like he still has a lot of learning to do. I don't think he's ready for marriage, and frankly you need a man that will have your back financially when you need help. As I've always understood, Love Don't Pay The Bills - and this guy is either giving tough love or no love...
Good point, not to rub salt in your wounds but he didn't just get this way.OP Not to make you feel bad but did your DH display any of this selfishness when you guys were dating?
Sounds like typical marital problems to me. Nothing out the ordinary. You all will work through it.
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