tigerrose
Well-Known Member
Ladies,
I would like your feedback on this situation because I
don't want to eliminate a guy for being too nice. I wonder
if it is possible for men over the age of 35 to change...
even if they really wanted to. I was reading something by
Tony Gaskins in Essence where he stated that a man who knows
he has found the One will do whatever it takes to get ready for her.
I am a strong woman because I have had to take care of myself
as a single woman. I realize that I need a strong man as my husband.
For me that includes a man willing to take charge in our relationship.
Not dominate me, but in addition to being a protector and provider,
he needs to be comfortable making decisions. He also needs to be a leader.
I realized I viewed a guy as weak, and as a result lost respect for him,
because although he is a provider type, he is too comfortable with the
woman taking charge in the relationship. He is really nice but it just
seems like he can never become the strong man I need. And I can never
be with a guy I don't respect either.
I would like your feedback on this situation because I
don't want to eliminate a guy for being too nice. I wonder
if it is possible for men over the age of 35 to change...
even if they really wanted to. I was reading something by
Tony Gaskins in Essence where he stated that a man who knows
he has found the One will do whatever it takes to get ready for her.
I am a strong woman because I have had to take care of myself
as a single woman. I realize that I need a strong man as my husband.
For me that includes a man willing to take charge in our relationship.
Not dominate me, but in addition to being a protector and provider,
he needs to be comfortable making decisions. He also needs to be a leader.
I realized I viewed a guy as weak, and as a result lost respect for him,
because although he is a provider type, he is too comfortable with the
woman taking charge in the relationship. He is really nice but it just
seems like he can never become the strong man I need. And I can never
be with a guy I don't respect either.