L.Brown1114
Well-Known Member
So a lot of times in social media I see a black woman screaming at the top of her lungs "I ONLY DATE BLACK MEN!" and of course there are a lot who speak for all of us for some reason and ignorantly says "Black women don't date white men." sooo due to that I hear a lot of white men (and men from other races as well) who will find us attractive but are terrified of being rejected due to this stigma.
So because of that, do you think it's okay to bend the dating rules and hit on white men? My ex fiance is white and in his last serious relationship before me she hit on him(she was also black). He hit on me. He was more manly, muscles, jawline for days, competitive type of guy.
So now I am talking to another white guy who is more of the nice guy type who seems as if he loves hard and prefers to be in relationships than sleep around. His last serious relationship was with a black woman almost 2 years ago. He asked me out on a first date and it was fun! He texted me the next day shortly (he works 2 jobs) and the next day after that he texted me again but I lost patience and asked him out next week. He said yes. So with all this being said I'm freaking out that I was too forward and I should have let him ask me, but another part of me is he may have needed that push because he wasn't sure if I was interested. (there was a moment when I could tell he was going to kiss me and I turned to get into my car...whoops)
thoughts? opinions? Especially from woman who have dated outside of their race
So because of that, do you think it's okay to bend the dating rules and hit on white men? My ex fiance is white and in his last serious relationship before me she hit on him(she was also black). He hit on me. He was more manly, muscles, jawline for days, competitive type of guy.
So now I am talking to another white guy who is more of the nice guy type who seems as if he loves hard and prefers to be in relationships than sleep around. His last serious relationship was with a black woman almost 2 years ago. He asked me out on a first date and it was fun! He texted me the next day shortly (he works 2 jobs) and the next day after that he texted me again but I lost patience and asked him out next week. He said yes. So with all this being said I'm freaking out that I was too forward and I should have let him ask me, but another part of me is he may have needed that push because he wasn't sure if I was interested. (there was a moment when I could tell he was going to kiss me and I turned to get into my car...whoops)
thoughts? opinions? Especially from woman who have dated outside of their race