2012 Relationship Random Thoughts.... Part III

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we're done...was trying to hold on but then i realize what am I holding on to if we aint got no titles Too bad i already introduced you to the fam...it was short lived but lesson learned
 
with dating, i feel like i'm in an odd place b/c i'm 22, but 2 years ahead of where most men my age are. i have never dated men my age b/c they were always "behind" me (either still in school, in a lower class year, etc). my crush is 23, but a recent college grad.

i was talking to my coworker about how he's young and how i also don't feel like we are intellectually matched really (but ugh he's fine :lol: & nice and all that other stuff but who cares). and he was like, "girl, you do not have a problem. just don't marry him"

:look: :lachen:

fair enough.

i am really future orientated so i cannot help but look ahead for everything. i hate how my mind works sometimes.
 
This is going to be a loooonng 30days of him attempting to do his fake a$$ "fasting". :look::drunk:
I don't like and can't take his cranky attitude. Gonna stay away from him for a few days.:sad:
 
When we were younger I was crushing you so hard but you didn't make a move. Now you're trying but I'm not interested and find your attempts at communication slightly annoying. I've definitely outgrown ANY possibility of us. But I'll keep your number for entertainment...
 
A856 said:
This is going to be a loooonng 30days of him attempting to do his fake a$$ "fasting". :look::drunk:
I don't like and can't take his cranky attitude. Gonna stay away from him for a few days.:sad:
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I'm sorry but I cant help but:lol:.

Ramadan im assuming. My former boo thang couldn't even get past day 1 without cracking:lol:.
 
bumblb87 said:
When we were younger I was crushing you so hard but you didn't make a move. Now you're trying but I'm not interested and find your attempts at communication slightly annoying. I've definitely outgrown ANY possibility of us. But I'll keep your number for entertainment...
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I have one of those too:yep:. When we were checkin for them, they wern't. and not that we arn't they are. Negros please.:look:
 
VeryBecoming said:
It's been like 3 weeks since I got some and I just realized I'll be on my period while in Paris.
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It came early! Hopefully it will be over by Friday.
 
He spoke to a couple of my friends the other day on the phone. He invited them to his birthday party in 2 wks and my 1 friend invited him to come with me to the crab feast she's having. yay for friends! lol
 
Had a great birthday weekend with my fam but special shoutout to SO. It stormed and lights went out the night of my actual birthday so we didn't go out to dinner like we had planned. When I showed up to his house the next day, he told me to close my eyes and when I opened them it was bags and envelopes. He got a bunch of random stuff that I like and said "It was actually kind of fun going to different places and finding stuff. I wanted to go more places but I got hungry. :ohwell:" :lol:

I was giving the card the sideeye at first but it's actually cute. A Star Wars card for somebody's 50th birthday--I was like you REALLY got hungry, huh? WTF? But it says the word "dark-sided" which is an inside joke of ours and he had drawn a line from the 50 and wrote "Even when you're 50 you'll still make me smile." Awr. Then later I got him tipsy off Skinny Girl margaritas and it made him all mushy and lovey-dovey and he made me promise not to tell anybody that he drank something called Skinny Girl. :look: But I can tell yall. Yall don't know him. :look:

My ex called and texted me the next day talmbout "I'm sorry I missed your birthday." It's okay. Bye, now!

And to the worthless batches at my job who forgot my birthday for the 3rd year in a row, after I run around spending 40 dollars on cakes and what not for yours because we celebrate everybody's birth--except mine...always--don't needya batches. Last year I was feeling a little down and it irked me. This year: nothing! No more cake from me for you, though :look: I don't even intend to work here anymore when that time rolls around, actually :look: Batch. I mean these audacious batches is something else *Kevin Hart voice*
 
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InchHighPrivateEye said:
Had a great birthday weekend with my fam but special shoutout to SO. It stormed and lights went out the night of my actual birthday so we didn't go out to dinner like we had planned. When I showed up to his house the next day, he told me to close my eyes and when I opened them it was bags and envelopes. He got a bunch of random stuff that I like and said "It was actually kind of fun going to different places and finding stuff. I wanted to go more places but I got hungry. :ohwell:" :lol:

I was giving the card the sideeye at first but it's actually cute. A Star Wars card for somebody's 50th birthday--I was like you REALLY got hungry, huh? WTF? But it says the word "dark-sided" which is an inside joke of ours and he had drawn a line from the 50 and wrote "Even when you're 50 you'll still make me smile." Awr. Then later I got him tipsy off Skinny Girl margaritas and it made him all mushy and lovey-dovey and he made me promise not to tell anybody that he drank something called Skinny Girl. :look: But I can tell yall. Yall don't know him. :look:

My ex called and texted me the next day talmbout "I'm sorry I missed your birthday." It's okay. Bye, now!

And to the worthless batches at my job who forgot my birthday for the 3rd year in a row, after I run around spending 40 dollars on cakes and what not for yours because we celebrate everybody's birth--except mine...always--don't needya batches. Last year I was feeling a little down and it irked me. This year: nothing! No more cake from me for you, though :look: I don't even intend to work here anymore when that time rolls around, actually :look: Batch. I mean these audacious batches is something else *Kevin Hart voice*
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Awww, he sounds like a sweetheart!!!!
 
He started surf camp in Portugal today. Trying not to worry....
ETA: yaaay he didn't drown but he swallowed a lot of water apparently :lol:
 
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We're in the process of planning our next vacation!! Yayyy! :yay: :yay: we're calling the place back tonight to get the details :D
 
:perplexed seriously, you're mad at for me this? You're being a brat and you know it.

:sigh: I'm guessing this our "first" argument. Half of me is feeling :sad: while the other is thinking ":rolleyes: you'll get over it". You're lucky I love you.
 
I thought I forgot something in my office so I turn around and go back to work. As soon as I get to the gates Smoking Hot Engineer is right there. And holy sh!t, he looked so beautiful my eyes started watering! He had on this teal polo, god I couldn't even look him in the eye. Of course he stops and talks to me about who knows what for 15 minutes. I wasn't really paying attention. So I go upstairs and he leaves. Then he texts me "you look gorgeous today." Whyyyyy??

Oh well. I see my bf in less than 2 days! And the long distance part of our relationship will be over by the end of August :grin:
 
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Seeing him in a few days. It seems like its ending before it really starts cause I dont know if a long distance relationship is realistic...
 
Making the move to charlotte in one week and I get to see him on the 10th of August. I told him I may lose interest if I don't see him next month. Lol. He said that it's a city with young available men which means more competition so he is coming. :lol:

Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
 
i swear the way i jones for being single sometimes - and having absolutely nothing to do with bf but just being nostalgic for my life back then - i would not EVER get with a "reformed" player type... i would not be able to believe he could drop it and not want that life anymore :nono: i do not believe that men could go from dating tons of women to one woman without some DEEP emotional core shaking to necessitate that change :nono:
 
if the people you know compare your love life to Twilight or 50 Shades of Grey, it's time to reconsider ALL of your life choices.
 
Wow, what a difference a year can make!!!!! Last year this time, I was giving him the side eye, thinking "whatever is in your cup, you need to put it down" as he confessed his feelings for me. This year, I am missing him and can't wait for him to get back in town so I can love on him.
 
Me and boyfriend are having a Sim-thon tonight :D we're both Sim-heads havin a good ole time on our computers. Aren't we cool?! lol
 
i respond to his texts when i feel like it. it may take 3 minutes or 7 hrs or 2 days. i'll get to it when i get to it. he, however, doesn't have that same privilege.:look: it's been nearly 4 hrs and this fool still hasn't responded.:mad: i hope he doesn't think he's going to get away with this.

eta: i just remembered he got some teeth pulled today and is on Vicodin.:perplexed he's probably sleeping and in pain. i should check on him.:lol:
 
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I think my coworkers boss is cute. Black(has an African last name), looks about early-mid 30s. He just got the promotion to this managerial position. Some of my coworkers/classmates(we are hired in "classes") we're in a brown bag lunch for the newbies talking to managers and seniors about questions and we walks in halfway into the session. I thought "wait a minute who are you" lol. This was 2 weeks ago. I saw him on Monday at about 8pm, we were both leaving. I was on the phone with my mom, I got off the phone so I could talk to him. Lol. He gave me some awesome advice. Tuesday I sent him an email thanking him-no response. I use his advice yesterday and it worked! Today, he either looked up where my office was or saw me strutting (in my cute dress and heels) to my office and stopped by to say hi and see how things were going. I was flustered! I didn't know what to say lol. He gave me more advice which I will definitely use. I'm glad he's not my boss! Lol. I need to figure out how to get him to ask me out. I want to know more about him. Lol.
 
Oasis said:
i respond to his texts when i feel like it. it may take 3 minutes or 7 hrs or 2 days. i'll get to it when i get to it. he, however, doesn't have that same privilege.:look: it's been nearly 4 hrs and this fool still hasn't responded.:mad: i hope he doesn't think he's going to get away with this.

eta: i just remembered he got some teeth pulled today and is on Vicodin.:perplexed he's probably sleeping and in pain. i should check on him.:lol:
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Why do you not expect back what you give to him? Is he on punishment or something (I mean besides the teeth pulling :)?
If it's for no reason other than playing games...be careful missy!
 
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