2012 Relationship Random Thoughts.... Part III

[Lucie]

I wish fathers were forced to watch a play-by-play of what men did to their daughters (emotionally, verbally and physically) during the span of the daughter's dating and married life. These same daughters who subconsciously tried to get from men what they were never given from their fathers.

 

[BGT]

SO sent me a picture of his swollen face with a giant ice pack. He looks so puffy and pathetic.

 

[CarefreeinChicago]

I get so tired of hearing my coworkers talk about marriage, husbands, wives, boyfriends girlfriends and love in general. What do I hear from my AA coworkers about love & marriage crickets.

 

[deltadreamland]

Just got the sweetest text from SO. I stayed home from work today, because I've been under the weather for over a week...thanks to my students and their cooties.

So, needless to say, I spent the day with SO after dropping my son off at school.

SO: Thanks for a great day.
Me: You're welcome love. You make great days easy.

 

[Mortons]

Trying to figure out what to do with the money my ex has in my account and with the phone they forgot they are having sent to my address... Deciding if I should be good and return everything, or say 'screw it, its mine!'.

 

[MzLady78]

Trying to figure out what to do with the money my ex has in my account and with the phone they forgot they are having sent to my address... Deciding if I should be good and return everything, or say 'screw it, its mine!'.

Return it, mama....Do the right thang.

So..so much for not having any baggage. Apparently, I'm a magnet for dudes who have their baby mamas living with them. SMFH.

Now that I'm unemployed again, I should really consider moving out of this cesspool. This ish isn't even funny anymore, it's pathetic.

 

[VeryBecoming]

MzLady78 Move You've talked about moving for years now. If you have the chance to start over, go for it!


SO said he has two presents for me at his house! I kind of want to check his Amazon account and see what they are.

 

[MzLady78]

MzLady78 Move You've talked about moving for years now. If you have the chance to start over, go for it!


SO said he has two presents for me at his house! I kind of want to check his Amazon account and see what they are.

I know, I know. I didn't want to leave my family (and a few other people in my life) but my siblings are off doing their thing with their SOs, I never see them anymore anyway. I only have ONE friend I hang out with on a semi regular basis, so maybe it's time.

 

[Je Ne Sais Quoi]

Based on what happened yesterday, so today basically said "I'm going to handle this going forward and we will get you out of this situation". He is taking charge on a problem in dealing with. Thank God I have someone in my corner.

On the other hand though I know she loves me, I need to stop talking to my mother about certain issues because she pisses me off with her I told you so attitude.

 

[OhmyKimB]

I'm supposed to be the backup girlfriend....WTF?

 

[FelaShrine]

Trying to figure out what to do with the money my ex has in my account and with the phone they forgot they are having sent to my address... Deciding if I should be good and return everything, or say 'screw it, its mine!'.

wait what happened?

 

[tinkat]

I miss him...sigh

Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF

 

[Lucie]

Dude and I went to see Hit & Run last night at the movies and he was so LOUD laughing that the other 5 people there could not stop laughing at his hyena laughing! Just thinking about it makes my cheeks hurt again. I love when he laughs.

Tomorrow is our trip to Miami. I cannot wait! I am wearing the skirt he bought me. I know he will be pleased.

 

[firecracker]

I'm dealing with my own issues proactively and positively so right now I don't care how anyone else handles theirs. Me first me first me first......... Sadly folks get mad or feel some kinda way if I'm not all up in their face asking questions and offering up advice/solutions. I keep telling them I'm black or white ain't no gray area. I just wanna spend time with my new spoiled baby. I am no longer in need of a 24 hour nurse, driver, errand man etc. Folks gotta recognize well not folks but these two men in my life. (man & manchild)

 

[firecracker]

Je Ne Sais Quoi Girl sometimes we need others to handle what we cannot or have tried in our own way. I'm a hot head so I let S/O handle alot of stuff. I don't think you are a hot head but maybe your dude can play the heavy for you if its needed.

Don't stay mad at moms because trust you will be in her shoes when Kiwi grows up. Next time think before you speak on somethings because once we put it out in the air folks can and will have an opinion. Stay up and happy chica. You deserve all of this goodness in your life.

Lucie I'm all excited for your upcoming trip. I have to take it slow from over doing it so I'm living vicariously through you and a few others. Take some pics of your outfits and the beach!!!! I hope you are wearing some of your thrift store finds so you can post them in that thread too. ENJOY!!!!!!

deltadreamland I am glad you took a personal day. You deserve it!

OhmyKimB I guess you were the last to know that bit of info?

MzLady78 I'm sorry your unemployed but this maybe the time to try something different and really spread your own wings. Nothing beats a failure but a try.

ElizaBlue chile just do you and stay outta that bs zone, thoughts, wannabe drama etc. The ex ain't never totally going away unless she dies since they have a child together. I don't want her dead but you really shouldn't be privy to her nonsense since its not important anyways. She stupid!!!!!!!

kismettt I'm confrused? Is the crush someone different? I thought the new dude was a winner, match etc WTH?

@kichen so ain't no AA's at yo job talking bout their love life only yt?

tinkat you won't be missing him too long cuz ya'll gon have some B-day fun real soon. Don't forget ole folx gave you a spank fo each year you've lived. Getchopaddlelife!!!!!!

As ya'll can see I'm noisy and nosey as hell this mawnin! Good Day Mates!!!!! I'm going to the beach w/my lil fella b4 noon hopefully.

 

[Lucie]

firecracker, if we make it out of the hotel room I'll be more than happy to take some pics.

 

[MzLady78]

firecracker, thanks.

I'm gonna take this time and figure out what I really to do and where I really want to be. I don't want to end up taking another job just for sake of having a job, that I'm gonna hate in 2 years because there's no growth opportunities, etc. Hopefully there's no issues when I file for unemployment.

 

[crlsweetie912]

firecracker, thanks.

I'm gonna take this time and figure out what I really to do and where I really want to be. I don't want to end up taking another job just for sake of having a job, that I'm gonna hate in 2 years because there's no growth opportunities, etc. Hopefully there's no issues when I file for unemployment.

MzLady78 have you ever thought about talking to a career counselor at a local community college? A lot of times they have these tests/inventories that will tell you what your strengths are and it could help guide you in the right direction....

 

[Je Ne Sais Quoi]

Je Ne Sais Quoi Girl sometimes we need others to handle what we cannot or have tried in our own way. I'm a hot head so I let S/O handle alot of stuff. I don't think you are a hot head but maybe your dude can play the heavy for you if its needed.

Don't stay mad at moms because trust you will be in her shoes when Kiwi grows up. Next time think before you speak on somethings because once we put it out in the air folks can and will have an opinion. Stay up and happy chica. You deserve all of this goodness in your life.

Lucie I'm all excited for your upcoming trip. I have to take it slow from over doing it so I'm living vicariously through you and a few others. Take some pics of your outfits and the beach!!!! I hope you are wearing some of your thrift store finds so you can post them in that thread too. ENJOY!!!!!!

deltadreamland I am glad you took a personal day. You deserve it!

OhmyKimB I guess you were the last to know that bit of info?

MzLady78 I'm sorry your unemployed but this maybe the time to try something different and really spread your own wings. Nothing beats a failure but a try.

ElizaBlue chile just do you and stay outta that bs zone, thoughts, wannabe drama etc. The ex ain't never totally going away unless she dies since they have a child together. I don't want her dead but you really shouldn't be privy to her nonsense since its not important anyways. She stupid!!!!!!!

kismettt I'm confrused? Is the crush someone different? I thought the new dude was a winner, match etc WTH?

@kichen so ain't no AA's at yo job talking bout their love life only yt?

tinkat you won't be missing him too long cuz ya'll gon have some B-day fun real soon. Don't forget ole folx gave you a spank fo each year you've lived. Getchopaddlelife!!!!!!

As ya'll can see I'm noisy and nosey as hell this mawnin! Good Day Mates!!!!! I'm going to the beach w/my lil fella b4 noon hopefully.

You right on all accounts. I'm not mad at her anymore lol. But yes you are right about putting stuff out there. Won't be doing that much anymore.

What beach you headed to today? The weather will likely be perfect. How is the lil stink stink?

 

[MzLady78]

MzLady78 have you ever thought about talking to a career counselor at a local community college? A lot of times they have these tests/inventories that will tell you what your strengths are and it could help guide you in the right direction....

I haven't, but that's a good idea.

 

[firecracker]

^^^^I'm really not suppose to be driving so I'm going to the nearest/Venice Beach plus I can walk my dog there.

Mr Briscodoe is fabulous. I had to mix up his meals because he shol was stink stink from chicken liver. I thought I was gon have to get this lil ninja some Gas-X for puppies. LOL

I gotta take him to see my Mom since she is back in town and harrassing me about bringing him over. LOL

 

[snugglez41685]

In a good mood. Found out my ex patched up his marriage after about two years of separation. So happy that he is finally happy. I am so in love with my SO. I thought seeing him once a week would not work for me but its the best thing! Last Sunday we stayed up late watching netfix. This feels so right but my guard is still halfway up.

 

[ElizaBlue]

ElizaBlue[/URL] chile just do you and stay outta that bs zone, thoughts, wannabe drama etc. The ex ain't never totally going away unless she dies since they have a child together. I don't want her dead but you really shouldn't be privy to her nonsense since its not important anyways. She stupid!!!!!!!

firecracker....I had written you a whole response....then SOMEBODY comes all the way from the other side of the house to sit down beside me. Why do men do that....I don't try to read his siht on his comic forums...dang.....

Anyway I wanted to say...when you go start charging....damn here he comes again. I'll be back.

 

[firecracker]

ElizaBlue LMAO.........I know the feelin!

 

[mallysmommy]

well i stomped his butt in some bowling yesterday. he didn't stand a chance even with the 8 gutters i threw one game. he kept blaming it on not having his glasses and being near-sided. lol whatever homie. I learned some more things about him, he is super funny and our sense of humor match. he "gets" me and i "get" him. Our next excursion is dave and busters next wednesday. i won't see him again until saturday when we work. Co-workers are still suspcious though. we've agreed that its none of their business and to just DENY DENY DENY

 

[A856]

I'm excited about our up coming getaway! We're now leaving tomorrow afternoon, which gives me more time to do what I need to do, nails, korean body scrub, waxing all that good stuff I need to figure out my hair too!

 

[Lucie]

I'm excited about our up coming getaway! We're now leaving tomorrow afternoon, which gives me more time to do what I need to do, nails, korean body scrub, waxing all that good stuff I need to figure out my hair too!

A856, where are you going? I am going away with my dude too. I wish I could do a fresh rollerset tonight but am too busy with shaving, plucking , nails and packing.

What Korean body scrub? I love body scrubs!

 

[Mortons]

wait what happened?

Broke up with my SO because they could figure out what was important til it was too late. They left money in my account for me to hold, and their phone is coming to my house because it was closer to ship to me. I guess I'm gonna be good and give it back to them. This time...

 

[Barbieglamour]

this man is not about talk and text my ears off.

I'm glad my phone died.

 

[Barbieglamour]

Broke up with my SO because they could figure out what was important til it was too late. They left money in my account for me to hold, and their phone is coming to my house because it was closer to ship to me. I guess I'm gonna be good and give it back to them. This time...

@Mortons the white individual??????