2012 Relationship Random Thoughts.... Part III

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He's only 5'6. *sighs*...

Yes, I'm only 5'2.5, but I usually like my men tall. Why does he have to be so cute and charming, but short.
 
I had a grand time at the festival and only bought a fish lunch which is a miracle:grin:. I usually buy stuff at African Festivals even though its overpriced. They had some great stuff and beautiful people. The hairstyles and textures were off the chain. They had loads of good samples even Miss Jessies. Bonner brothers is bringing the Natural Hair Show to the West Coast. Its in Oakland the weekend of the 23rd. :grin:

My new baby was good the whole time too but he refused to use the potty until we got home. :lol: He had two baths today. One before and one afterwards.

Mister blue ballz man forgot his leftover seafood. I should eat it outta spite.:look:
 
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I'm sad, hurt, and mad as hell... but I have to stand my ground. If I don't your actions are going to continue, and I will always be sad, hurt, and mad as hell. At this point, it can make or break us, either you do better or you dont, the choice is yours.

The thing is, I am old enough and have experienced enough to know... that I am going to be fine. I will be sad and will shed a tear or two and be mad but that will only be for a little while. I will get over you like I have gotten over the rest and move right along with my life. It is what it is.
 
I had this same exact thought this weekend :lachen:

Je Ne Sais Quoi said:
I told this ninja to leave because we just had a tiff. He continues to BBQ and set up my wii without batting an eye *blink blink*

I don't think I can handle being married and this just proves it. Maybe that's why I'm not married yet. I guess it's just not for me.
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He came back a day early from Disney World because he missed me so much. Our trip is in 4 days!
 
Our anniversary is today! Last night he gave me tickets to ACL! He said some other stuff is coming in the mail...I hope one is a water bottle, I really want a glass one :lol:

I need an outfit for our date tonight.
 
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ElegantPearl17 said:
I had this same exact thought this weekend :lachen:
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Girl I must not be about that life :lol: he did not leave!!!! I'm still annoyed with him and the easy thing for me to do is just walk away. We are opposites because he believes in staying and getting over things. That ain't me. I need to fester for awhile.
 
my brother loves her SO MUCH. it is so interesting to watch for so many reasons. but yeah, that love is real. he proposed earlier this year. it's not that i didn't think they would last (i had no opinions b/c i was not at all checking for his life), but from what i've heard from my mom/seen, it is all really really sweet.

aw

:lol:
 
we connect crazy well. just talk forever about everythinggggg (politics, education, womanism/feminism, life, family, goals, books, friends, etc etc). we talk SO MUCH. and i love it. he's also sooo into me, which is THE BEST (i'm trying to be careful and withhold judgement/not get caught up since it is super early). like his friends called and he'd started talking about me to them, he said he told his mom about me ("how big is she?" :lol: he likes them thick apparently) plus he's super intelligent and knows so much and just ughh. soo good.

i ended up seeing him all weekend (rollerblading/sushi Sun, then coffee/walk/chinese Mon). his teaching stories KILL me (i thought my school was bad! omg who knew they got down like that in Memphis???)
 
SO facepainted one last time before his mouth surgery tomorrow. Sigh, I'm gonna miss that for the next month...
 
firecracker said:
I had a grand time at the festival and only bought a fish lunch which is a miracle:grin:. I usually buy stuff at African Festivals even though its overpriced. They had some great stuff and beautiful people. The hairstyles and textures were off the chain. They had loads of good samples even Miss Jessies. Bonner brothers is bringing the Natural Hair Show to the West Coast. Its in Oakland the weekend of the 23rd. :grin:
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I'm definitely checking that out, off to google.

So looks like this is a couples road trip :look: trying to keep my cool, why does this man NOT have a room reserved somewhere?!?!?! He's banking on jus driving down flashing his military id and getting a room. One things forsure the other couple will not be shacking with us. Nope!
 
so conflicted. i want to stay for the sake of our relationship but i want to go because i'm 24 and its time for me to stop ****ing around and try to get my life on track. i just don't understand why i can't do both at the same time.

:cry:

i don't know what to do.
 
Oasis said:
so conflicted. i want to stay for the sake of our relationship but i want to go because i'm 24 and its time for me to stop ****ing around and try to get my life on track. i just don't understand why i can't do both at the same time.

:cry:

i don't know what to do.
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Why can't you do both? Eventually you will have to balance work and relationships. Do you think this could be some serious? I wouldn't give that up. You better find that balance!
 
I can see the honeymoon phase is beginning to fade cuz NOW, ur pissin me off dude... Men: cant live with them, and u can't kill them -_-
 
ugh hate that we're on different work schedules. we had a long convo last night/ this morning. we agree on alot of things when it comes to relationships however there are important things that we have different views on as well. we both agree that there is no need to rush and that we should just take our time and enjoy each other. he took the day off tomorrow so that we can hang out when i get out of class. i promised to kick his butt in some bowling. can't wait!
 
My friends are desperate for me to be in a relationship just so i can go on couples outings with them....da fuq? Even if i was in one i would not want to do couples outings with them. They laugh when i tell them that but im dead ***.
 
Keshieshimmer said:
Why can't you do both? Eventually you will have to balance work and relationships. Do you think this could be some serious? I wouldn't give that up. You better find that balance!
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its not about balance, not exactly. i joined the military ages ago, before i met him and now its time for me to leave. im really conflicted because all of the reasons i joined (travel, new friends, new experiences) ive gotten/done with him.

i wouldnt consider staying for another guy but this is different from my other relationships. we had a very long talk yesterday and hes really serious about us. hes in it for the long haul and im afraid if i leave we may not make it. but im also afraid if i dont take this opportunity i'll regret it.
 
officially ended things w/ crush. (i had to, my friends were throwing so much shade at me. but i was being pretty obnoxious. "he's so hot. but we don't have similar intellectual interests. i don't know if he even has intellectual interest" rude).

it hurt a little since he's so beautiful (and genuinely a good guy. educated, sweet, nice, adorable, etc).

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I think this guy from the place I volunteer at is trying to "hollar" at me, but I could be so wrong. He could just be nice, right? Yeah..he's just a nice guy.
But so far... this has happened:

1.)
I told the the lady in charge I couldn't come in one day because I was sick and he sent me an email and called as soon as he found out to see if I was okay

2.)
When I came in after that above incident, he mentioned he called but figured since I didn't know the number, that's why I didn't pick up.
He then proceeded to ask me to put his number in my phone.

3.)
He called today, left a voice message just to see how I am doing.

My only issue is that if he is trying to "holla"..I don't want to give him the wrong impression that I do like him like that...or send any mixed signals. God..I hope he isn't.
 
So somebody I used to deal with 4 years ago sent me a text. I guess people do not delete phone numbers from phones anymore. Then he had the nerve to ask can we meet up...ummm no I don't think so

Sent from my HTC EVO 3D
 
SO is so nice, but I feel like he's the clean-up guy. He always cleans up everyone else's mess, then when I object, I look like the jerk. A friend of his is back in school, asked SO to help them with a paper, but was afraid SO wouldn't help, so said friend paid someone to write the paper and the person didn't come through. Now, SO is going to help anyway. :wallbash: I can't feel sorry for them, but my SO does. So annoying...and this happens ALL the time. His firiends know they can depend on him no matter what and his friends take advantage of him. Of course, he can't see it though.

Had to get this off my chest....
 
"Mothers" that silently allow or turn a blind eye to men abusing or molesting their children need to be CONVICTED as well. Since they love their "man" so much they should be more than willing to serve time in jail with him. #protect-the-innocents
 
daydreem2876 said:
I'm sad, hurt, and mad as hell... but I have to stand my ground. If I don't your actions are going to continue, and I will always be sad, hurt, and mad as hell. At this point, it can make or break us, either you do better or you dont, the choice is yours.

The thing is, I am old enough and have experienced enough to know... that I am going to be fine. I will be sad and will shed a tear or two and be mad but that will only be for a little while. I will get over you like I have gotten over the rest and move right along with my life. It is what it is.
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Its only fair I post the outcome of our conversation...

It makes me happy that you can apologize for what happened but I had to apologize too, I can admit I did not handle as well as I could have. No one admitted who was wrong but there was a lot of listening and explaining from each prespective. A lot of laughter too. In the end, it was the lack of communication that lead to misunderstanding. Now that we know better, we have to do better.

After we talked, I know that I am blessed to have found someone who actually wants work at this with me, wants me to know that I am loved, and wants me to be happy. I want to do the same for him. So we just have to continue one day at a time.

OMG... relationship are hard work. Still, it is what it is.
 
Begging for someone to just talk to you...is so pitiful....if ex's spent as much time and effort into keeping the man when they had him....they wouldn't have to be so desparate when he's moved on. #girlpleasestopplayingyoself
 
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