I'm not going in a funky arse strip club where there are men or women. I can give him a show if he wants to see stuff jiggle in the privacy of our home.
People are dancing their musty behinds around dropping sweat on people.
Don't mind me though I'm crazy, 
I don't go in Burger King because the odor a lot of fast food restaurants have.
Yeah, that was a good post. I can't stand how some women have to call others insecure just because they have different standards for their relationship.
Yeah, that was a good post. I can't stand how some women have to call others insecure just because they have different standards for their relationship.
:sigh: I bypassed a giant double chocolate - chocolate chip muffin the other day...
I'm lucky that my husband thinks its demeaning.
WHEW!! I've read through this whole thread. Very deep! Okay, now it's time for me to give my two cents.
It seems to me like a lot of women are allowing their men to frequent strip clubs because they are not strong enough to stand up to them, or fear that by putting their foot down their man may do them wrong. Many of you who allow your men to frequent strip clubs want to bring up the fact that us women who won’t allow our men to go have issues with self esteem. Well, I won’t disagree with you on that. My self esteem is TOO HIGH to allow (I know I can’t always control it) my man to lust after another NAKED woman!!! MY opinion is that I look TOO good for him to be looking at any other woman. The only naked woman he should be looking at is ME. i go through a lot to try and look good for him - exercising, avoiding yummy food, getting my hair done, etc. I know you ladies may not want to hear this, but it’s the truth – IF YOUR MAN FREQUENTS A STRIP CLUB HE IS NOT PHYSICALLY HAPPY WITH YOU!!!! It doesn’t get any clearer than this! And i know that's not what a relationship is all about. He’s also disrespecting you. For those that allow your man to frequent strip clubs, what else do you allow them to do?? It seems to me that many are equating trust with naivety. Since you TRUST your man to go to the strip club, do you TRUST him to go on dates with other women? Do you TRUST him to intimately communicate with other women?
I don’t think that my man likes to go to the strip club. I also do not go out of RESPECT for my man. He’s already told me he wouldn’t like it, so I think it’s just mutual respect that we both just don’t go. I went when I was single once. It wasn’t for me anyway. I feel that if you are in a committed relationship (ESPECIALLY marriage) that is a SACRIFICE that you have to make. Anything else is just an excuse to hold on to the SINGLE life. It hasn’t come up in the three years we’ve been together. He hasn’t mentioned his friends wanting to go. He told me that his dad took him for his 18th birthday (or maybe 21st) and he didn’t talk much about it. If I did find out that he was regularly going behind my back I would leave the relationship! THAT'S how serious it is to me. I do think him and his friends have too high of egos to go anywhere to have to PAY for a women to do anything for them. I know that some of you may have seen my recent post about dancing for my man. I do that for FREE. But I will take some tips, though!
I will also agree with those that say OF COURSE men will justify going to a strip club! Are you THAT naïve???
Some women have said, they would even go with their man. For what and why? I would seriously like to understand, what is the wife or girlfriend getting out of seeing another woman dance?
I agree with everything!!! How does anyone stand there and allow themselves to be soooo disrespected?
I'm glad someone agrees with me.
He had me on the floor as soon as we walked in the door.
I mean I can see why a man would like it, but a female sitting there like she is one of the boys, watching her man lusting to be with that woman and then going home with him with so he can pretend her ass is the stripper named "Cherry Pie" that just danced for them.
I mean I can see why a man would like it, but a female sitting there like she is one of the boys, watching her man lusting to be with that woman and then going home with him with so he can pretend her ass is the stripper named "Cherry Pie" that just danced for them.
WHEW!! I've read through this whole thread. Very deep! Okay, now it's time for me to give my two cents.
It seems to me like a lot of women are allowing their men to frequent strip clubs because they are not strong enough to stand up to them, or fear that by putting their foot down their man may do them wrong. Many of you who allow your men to frequent strip clubs want to bring up the fact that us women who won’t allow our men to go have issues with self esteem. Well, I won’t disagree with you on that. My self esteem is TOO HIGH to allow (I know I can’t always control it) my man to lust after another NAKED woman!!! MY opinion is that I look TOO good for him to be looking at any other woman. The only naked woman he should be looking at is ME. i go through a lot to try and look good for him - exercising, avoiding yummy food, getting my hair done, etc. I know you ladies may not want to hear this, but it’s the truth – IF YOUR MAN FREQUENTS A STRIP CLUB HE IS NOT PHYSICALLY HAPPY WITH YOU!!!! It doesn’t get any clearer than this! And i know that's not what a relationship is all about. He’s also disrespecting you. For those that allow your man to frequent strip clubs, what else do you allow them to do?? It seems to me that many are equating trust with naivety. Since you TRUST your man to go to the strip club, do you TRUST him to go on dates with other women? Do you TRUST him to intimately communicate with other women?
I don’t think that my man likes to go to the strip club. I also do not go out of RESPECT for my man. He’s already told me he wouldn’t like it, so I think it’s just mutual respect that we both just don’t go. I went when I was single once. It wasn’t for me anyway. I feel that if you are in a committed relationship (ESPECIALLY marriage) that is a SACRIFICE that you have to make. Anything else is just an excuse to hold on to the SINGLE life. It hasn’t come up in the three years we’ve been together. He hasn’t mentioned his friends wanting to go. He told me that his dad took him for his 18th birthday (or maybe 21st) and he didn’t talk much about it. If I did find out that he was regularly going behind my back I would leave the relationship! THAT'S how serious it is to me. I do think him and his friends have too high of egos to go anywhere to have to PAY for a women to do anything for them. I know that some of you may have seen my recent post about dancing for my man. I do that for FREE. But I will take some tips, though!
I will also agree with those that say OF COURSE men will justify going to a strip club! Are you THAT naïve???
WHEW!! I've read through this whole thread. Very deep! Okay, now it's time for me to give my two cents.
It seems to me like a lot of women are allowing their men to frequent strip clubs because they are not strong enough to stand up to them, or fear that by putting their foot down their man may do them wrong. Many of you who allow your men to frequent strip clubs want to bring up the fact that us women who won’t allow our men to go have issues with self esteem. Well, I won’t disagree with you on that. My self esteem is TOO HIGH to allow (I know I can’t always control it) my man to lust after another NAKED woman!!! MY opinion is that I look TOO good for him to be looking at any other woman. The only naked woman he should be looking at is ME. i go through a lot to try and look good for him - exercising, avoiding yummy food, getting my hair done, etc. I know you ladies may not want to hear this, but it’s the truth – IF YOUR MAN FREQUENTS A STRIP CLUB HE IS NOT PHYSICALLY HAPPY WITH YOU!!!! It doesn’t get any clearer than this! And i know that's not what a relationship is all about. He’s also disrespecting you. For those that allow your man to frequent strip clubs, what else do you allow them to do?? It seems to me that many are equating trust with naivety. Since you TRUST your man to go to the strip club, do you TRUST him to go on dates with other women? Do you TRUST him to intimately communicate with other women?
I don’t think that my man likes to go to the strip club. I also do not go out of RESPECT for my man. He’s already told me he wouldn’t like it, so I think it’s just mutual respect that we both just don’t go. I went when I was single once. It wasn’t for me anyway. I feel that if you are in a committed relationship (ESPECIALLY marriage) that is a SACRIFICE that you have to make. Anything else is just an excuse to hold on to the SINGLE life. It hasn’t come up in the three years we’ve been together. He hasn’t mentioned his friends wanting to go. He told me that his dad took him for his 18th birthday (or maybe 21st) and he didn’t talk much about it. If I did find out that he was regularly going behind my back I would leave the relationship! THAT'S how serious it is to me. I do think him and his friends have too high of egos to go anywhere to have to PAY for a women to do anything for them. I know that some of you may have seen my recent post about dancing for my man. I do that for FREE. But I will take some tips, though!
I will also agree with those that say OF COURSE men will justify going to a strip club! Are you THAT naïve???
Awww, thanks!!!!
