WTH: This guy has 2 kids but still hasn't found that special someone

[Lucia]

Ok get your popcorn ready I couldn't belive my ears
Someone asked this dude so you married he says no I haven't
found that special someone yet.
ok that's cool right everybody doesn't have to meet her or him
in HS right.
But then the question do you have kids came up and yeah
he's got 2 kids and if you must know his lady came up 10 min later with kiddies on tow
now he's black Amr and she's white Amr. Now he said his not a half hour
before she came up. Is it just me or did that not make any sense. It bothered me how little
he thougt of her if a all.
WTH Does dude think he can still be a master player. All I was thinking was DAYUM!!!! SMH.

 

[Almaz]

Maybe Becky was not all cracked up to what he thought she would be. (sarcasm) here

I did not make sense you make 2 babies but she still ain't the one. Wow okay more on this later

 

[Mai Tai]

I wonder if she know she ain't the one. My guess is he ain't singing that tune when they are alone.

 

[Helpmeblongagain]

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[song_of_serenity]

I've seen it even here...stories of dating a guy for years or so and the guy inadvertently expressing "Yeah, I'm with you...but you're just not who I'm going to marry."

Date the guy...for years even...no ring...
Guy breaks it off, meets a new girl (or may have had her during "your" time...) Guy was with you for 8 years, you break up, he meets a new chick and they're married within 6 months...even if he met her AFTER the break up and nothing shady was going on.

When a guy knows what he wants and you're not it, yeah, he'll stay until something better comes along...but they usually...USUALLY...will let it be known. I'm sure the woman may have known that. Having babies will NOT keep him!

 

[Almaz]

Yep exactly and I have seen this time and time again. We need to go to read the SIGNS thread

I've seen it even here...stories of dating a guy for years or so and the guy inadvertently expressing "Yeah, I'm with you...but you're just not who I'm going to marry."

Date the guy...for years even...no ring...
Guy breaks it off, meets a new girl (or may have had her during "your" time...) Guy was with you for 8 years, you break up, he meets a new chick and they're married within 6 months...even if he met her AFTER the break up and nothing shady was going on.

When a guy knows what he wants and you're not it, yeah, he'll stay until something better comes along...but they usually...USUALLY...will let it be known. I'm sure the woman may have known that. Having babies will NOT keep him!

 

[Lucia]

Maybe Becky was not all cracked up to what he thought she would be. (sarcasm) here

I did not make sense you make 2 babies but she still ain't the one. Wow okay more on this later

Yeah all those BM dating WW b/c they're less confrontational, don't disrespect them, don't have attitude, submissive, easy going no like BW yada, yada, ummm. that's not what I saw, as soon as she came up she was barking orders, and HE was the submissive one. I've seen this with WM/WW couples too once the chick has a ring on it-is engaged or married she starts ruling over the guy. It's a total before and after Bridezilla style, so much for the submissive and quiet Becky theory

 

[hopeful]

Lucia, he ought to be ashamed of himself. Talking about he hasn't found that special someone, just ridiculous. But I totally don't get women having kids with or living with a man who is not their husband--I can't wrap my head around that.

 

[thatscuteright]

I met a man like this. Except he has one kid that is 2 years old.
Never married the mother of the child because he hasn't found the right one-
Made me give him the side eye.
Her and her genes are good enough to procreate and make babies, but she is not good enough to be your legal partner and wife ?- things that make you say hmmmm....

 

[weaveadiva]

i don't understand how not having found the one equates to him being a player

Her and her genes are good enough to procreate and make babies, but she is not good enough to be your legal partner and wife ?- things that make you say hmmmm....

there are plenty women on this very board who have children with men they thought would be in it for life, but things don't always work out that way

and this may sound crazy, but i believe being a good mother does not automatically mean she'd be a good wife, and vice versa

*shuts up now*

 

[aribell]

Well, I hope she understands that he feels that way.

 

[firecracker]

His dangalang is a wonderer and he is a pure j-arse but many women will not care and will even marry that fool. I see it everyday and the so called special chick opens up herself to loads of bs and drama. dumb and dumber