Would you date yourself?

I've heard this question many times and I've always found this to be a weird question. I'm neither a lesbian nor a guy. That's too much unnecessary pressure and mental gymnastics. A woman has no idea what it's like to be a man nor think like one.

I have heard men tell me what they find appealing, attractive and sexy and it was the furthest thing on my mind and I couldn't figure out why that turned them on. So IMO that question is yet another thing that keeps women confused and doing too much when it comes to men.
 
Hmmm, Idk. I can be a terrible girlfriend at times IMO. But I can also be an awesome girlfriend.

Eh, I'd date me, try to get into my pants, (coz I have a nice body if I do say so myself) and if I can handle my crappy girlfriend days I'd stick with me. If not... well, at least the sex was good.:look: :lol:
 
In heartbeat. I'm laid back, not fussy, like my down time with myself and my family and friends. I'm a one man kinda gal. I'm very loyal and trustworthy. I grew up with a bunch of guys so I'm often referred to as a guy girl. I'm low maintenance. I could eat at McDonalds on a first date~~no lie there. I love martial arts and sumo wrestling. Yeah I would date me.
 
Sheena284 said:
Hmmm, Idk. I can be a terrible girlfriend at times IMO. But I can also be an awesome girlfriend.

Eh, I'd date me, try to get into my pants, (coz I have a nice body if I do say so myself) and if I can handle my crappy girlfriend days I'd stick with me. If not... well, at least the sex was good.:look: :lol:
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:lachen::lachen::lachen::lachen::lachen:
 
No and it's not because I don't think that I'm good looking but I can be boring sometimes. I don't do spontaneity and I need someone who will take the reins and say lets go out, picnicking, parting to the museum, function, church/ whatever.
 
Right now, yeah, I'd date me for fun and hanging out/chill time. If I was looking for a long term gf or marriage, I'd need a few more years.
 
Would the male me date the female me?
Yes. I'm a flirt and I love being flirted with, so that would be fun. We'd be a very passionate couple.

But we wouldn't last long. I wouldn't be the man that I wanted myself to be. I like to play the submissive role and if I can't step up and be the man that I want myself to be, I'm not going to stay. And I know that I won't step up to that role.
 
if i were a guy, would i date someone like me? yes, absolutely.

would i date the male version of me? **** naw.
 
CurlyMoo said:
I've heard this question many times and I've always found this to be a weird question. I'm neither a lesbian nor a guy. That's too much unnecessary pressure and mental gymnastics. A woman has no idea what it's like to be a man nor think like one.

I have heard men tell me what they find appealing, attractive and sexy and it was the furthest thing on my mind and I couldn't figure out why that turned them on. So IMO that question is yet another thing that keeps women confused and doing too much when it comes to men.
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Really? I have heard men tell me what they find appealing, attractive, and sexy, too... and they've told me I'm it. And I feel like I'm it. So I didn't have to think too hard about the question.

Oasis said:
if i were a guy, would i date someone like me? yes, absolutely.

would i date the male version of me? **** naw.
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@Oasis :clap: Yes, absolutely, and **** naw. :lol:
 
I would date me but I would have an issue with how controlling I am.

I'm a control freak and I can't help it.
 
Yes, yes for the most part. I am nice, I can throw a few jokes here and there, I'm worldly however I have been told I come off "cold" or snooty at first so that might hinder me from even trying to approach myself haha.
 
I want to say yes :lol: cause I'm a great person but a few things about myself still nag me. Weight, lack of hobbies, and inexperience being the magical trio. After I master those things, I'll be a 10!
 
No! I like my own way too much. I would be a nightmare to date. My husbands best friend is so much like me. I can't stand him and always feel sorry for his long suffering gf. I love my DH. He puts up with a lot.........
 
Starronda said:
HELL NO! LMAO:lachen:

Why not: I can be a spoiled brat at times, a little stubborn when it comes to me getting my way. I have a hard time admitting when I’m wrong, instead of saying sorry, I’ll just do something nice for the person. Usually it’s my way or no way. I’m always late for dates and I need lots of attention and affection *I’m a Pisces:look:* Difficult when I want to be, however good looks, stay fit and can be adorable when need be lol
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Everything except I'm a libra. Also I'm lazy lol.
 
Would I date myself right now?.... No. Mainly because I know me and I know that at times have a tendency to self sabatoge situations and relationships. It puts all the wonderful things about me on a time constraint due to me wanting out of the relationship at some point for whatever reason.

Would I date the male version of me... Never:nono:
 
Katherina said:
Really? I have heard men tell me what they find appealing, attractive, and sexy, too... and they've told me I'm it. And I feel like I'm it. So I didn't have to think too hard about the question.



@Oasis :clap: Yes, absolutely, and **** naw. :lol:
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That's funny, I don't think about the question at all. In fact if I go by the reaction I get from men and based on what I am told. I'm the prototype. I think most women will answer this question with a yes. And good for them.
 
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