Here are a few made-up scenarios. Would you date (for marriage) any of these men? Why or why not?
NOTE: ALL the men present themselves as extremely caring, loyal, and of good character. Whether they actually are or not depends on what you find out along the way.
1. 40-year-old man. Divorced. 3 kids and 2 baby mamas. No... Too much baggage
2. 35-year-old man. Ended relationship 6 months ago with his gf of 4 years. They have a 2-year-old together. Would rather not... much easier if the gf is dead... (no offense).. but I cant do baby mama drama....
3. 38-year-old man. No kids. High school diploma but no college education. Works a blue-collar job making about ~$60,000 a year. Yes... together we can make something work... With my income, we'll live well... he can go to college if he needs to later in life...
4. 42-year-old man. Lives with his brother in a house but has his own car. He's working but wants to save extra money for bills, hence the living arrangement. The brother owns the house. NO.. A lil old for saving some extra money for bills and living with his brother... that's what you do in your 20's not 40's.
5. 33-year-old man. A history of bankruptcy but is much better with money now. Diligently pays child support to his baby mama, with whom he has one son. Nope... no baby mama and money drama for me... I'm very frugal, and anti-debt naturally.... we would never agree on how to spend our money...
The why (or why not) part is what I really want to know for each scenario.
loolalooh said:1. 40-year-old man. Divorced. 3 kids and 2 baby mamas.
2. 35-year-old man. Ended relationship 6 months ago with his gf of 4 years. They have a 2-year-old together.
3. 38-year-old man. No kids. High school diploma but no college education. Works a blue-collar job making about ~$60,000 a year.
4. 42-year-old man. Lives with his brother in a house but has his own car. He's working but wants to save extra money for bills, hence the living arrangement. The brother owns the house.
5. 33-year-old man. A history of bankruptcy but is much better with money now. Diligently pays child support to his baby mama, with whom he has one son.
Chile me too. Back in the day...before dh I loved dating different men. I probably wouldn't make any of them my boyfriend except #3.Well color me a hoe. I said I would go on a date with all of them.
it's all in redHere are a few made-up scenarios. Would you date (for marriage) any of these men? Why or why not?
NOTE: ALL the men present themselves as extremely caring, loyal, and of good character. Whether they actually are or not depends on what you find out along the way.
1. 40-year-old man. Divorced. 3 kids and 2 baby mamas. if he had only one BM and less kids yes
2. 35-year-old man. Ended relationship 6 months ago with his gf of 4 years. They have a 2-year-old together. maybe I got a 2 year old and if he is involved in his kids life regardless than its ok with me. it also depends on who broke it off.
3. 38-year-old man. No kids. High school diploma but no college education. Works a blue-collar job making about ~$60,000 a year. he had some luck to be making 60K, but if he doesn't have ambition to make more we can't hang. Education is important, so you got to atleast finish HS, it's not that hard. now dropping out of college I can understand to some degree, but you better have an Associates, certificates or something.
4. 42-year-old man. Lives with his brother in a house but has his own car. He's working but wants to save extra money for bills, hence the living arrangement. The brother owns the house. Maybe- I have dated a guy who lived with his brother and his father(divorced) they purchased a house together(atleast that's his story) He was a very ambitious guy though( wanted to start his own hedge fund co.) and he had gone through a divorce and has a daughter.
5. 33-year-old man. A history of bankruptcy but is much better with money now. Diligently pays child support to his baby mama, with whom he has one son. Every time I read this one I keep saying maybe. It depends on what landed him in the bankruptcy in the first place. And- does much better with money, mean that he is saving his money, maybe even making more money and he can afford to take on the task of being in a new relationship?
The why (or why not) part is what I really want to know for each scenario.
Let's play a game...what famous people can we match to these?
Who is a male celeb or athlete who is about 40 with two divorces and three children?