PositivelyBeautiful
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I feel really bad even asking this but I just wanted to see if anyone could offer some advice. Ok, recently I been dating a guy. He's really nice, educated, attractive, respectful, ambitious etc. We're both looking to meet someone and settle down marry at some point in the future, so we were both dating with a view to finding out if there might be potential for something serious in the future. We went on a date this week and he sat me down and told me that he has a hereditary genetic condition that most of his family has. It can seriously affect an individuals life and can be unsightly and painful. He's pretty sure if he has children they'll have the condition as he has a dominant gene. The condition affects his hair, sweat glands and teeth but he's had them worked on, but most kids born with the condition have to have cosmetic work done, from as young as the age of two. What he told me completely knocked me for six. My family is really healthy and we have no medical conditions that I know of. He told me he would understand if I wanted to 're-evaluate things' after him telling me. He's told me a lot of other personal things about his upbringing and stuff but said that things were going so well that he didn't want to tell me until now because he was scared. At the moment I'm kind of confused. He's a great guy and we click on every level. I just don't know how I feel. Am i being shallow even thinking about this? I'm very open minded but I never anticipated that my future children might have a serious genetic condition.