socurlyqt
New Member
According to the CDC the leading cause of death for black women aged 25-34 is HIV/AIDS. In 2005 the rate of AIDS diagnosis for black women (45.5/100,000 women) was approximately 23 times the rate for white women (2.0/100,000) and 4 times the rate for Hispanic women (11.2/100,000).
Many of newest cases of the disease are occurring in black women who are married or in committed relationships with black men. I'm interested in knowing how this information affects your view of marriage and commitment. And if any of you plan on making you DH strap up after marriage?
To be honest i really don't know how to answer the question, on one hand you want to protect yourself but on the other if you ask you DH to strap up are you already assuming/expecting he will do wrong?
Many of newest cases of the disease are occurring in black women who are married or in committed relationships with black men. I'm interested in knowing how this information affects your view of marriage and commitment. And if any of you plan on making you DH strap up after marriage?
To be honest i really don't know how to answer the question, on one hand you want to protect yourself but on the other if you ask you DH to strap up are you already assuming/expecting he will do wrong?