Maracujá
November 2020 --> 14 years natural!!!
I did a search for a similar thread but didn't find one, so I decided to start my own. I've been thinking about starting this thread for a few days now and the following three incidents made me decide to do it:
1) I was talking to a co-worker of mine today, he's a white male in his mid thirties I believe, he said that he has shacked FOUR times with four different girls in his life and that it has never worked out. He's currently in a relationship and if all goes well they're thinking about shacking two years from now. He asked me if I had an SO and when I told him no his eyes lit up, he said that sometimes it's best.
2) Another co-worker of mine, biracial in her early twenties is currently pregnant and living with her boyfriend (who is black). Her boyfriend refuses to get a job so she basically supports him. When she heard I was single and living by myself she said she wish she had done the same.
Now I know how y'all ladies feel about people who shack, so here's another story:
3) This co-worker of mine is the sister of the girl in story number 2, she is biracial and in her early thirties. She got married in 2009 and divorced in 2010 (her ex-husband is white). She basically had the same problem as her sister except that she didn't put up with it: her hubby is a DJ and refused to get a real job, they had just purchased a home together that needed a total makeover and she was the only one working and bringing in loot, she decided enough was enough.
So ladies what are your thoughts on this? Why is it so difficult for two people to live together? I look at my life right now and think: this is how I want to live even when I'll have an SO, I like this peace and serenity that I have created in my home...
1) I was talking to a co-worker of mine today, he's a white male in his mid thirties I believe, he said that he has shacked FOUR times with four different girls in his life and that it has never worked out. He's currently in a relationship and if all goes well they're thinking about shacking two years from now. He asked me if I had an SO and when I told him no his eyes lit up, he said that sometimes it's best.
2) Another co-worker of mine, biracial in her early twenties is currently pregnant and living with her boyfriend (who is black). Her boyfriend refuses to get a job so she basically supports him. When she heard I was single and living by myself she said she wish she had done the same.
Now I know how y'all ladies feel about people who shack, so here's another story:
3) This co-worker of mine is the sister of the girl in story number 2, she is biracial and in her early thirties. She got married in 2009 and divorced in 2010 (her ex-husband is white). She basically had the same problem as her sister except that she didn't put up with it: her hubby is a DJ and refused to get a real job, they had just purchased a home together that needed a total makeover and she was the only one working and bringing in loot, she decided enough was enough.
So ladies what are your thoughts on this? Why is it so difficult for two people to live together? I look at my life right now and think: this is how I want to live even when I'll have an SO, I like this peace and serenity that I have created in my home...