emerald06
New Member
I didn't post this in the Relationship Forum because it is not my relationship.
Over the years I have witnessed family members -- in-laws mostly, as it was my blood relatives who were being gutter-butt by cheating -- fall victim not only by being cheated on but by being cheated on with a nasty, fat, ugly, low-class -- or any combination thereof -- woman.
One of my male cousins cheated on his nice looking wife with this large, nasty woman who lived in a trailer park. I say she was nasty because when I saw her, she would always have dingy spots on her clothes, holes, hair half-combed, the comb might have been stuck in her hair with a couple of lint balls in it. You get the picture. How did I know her when I saw her? I had another cousin (the cheating cousin's brother, in fact) point her out by saying, "There's Bearilla." Those are his words not mine.
His wife was always classy, lovely, graceful, up-standing and nicely styled.
I grew up wondering "WTH!?!" I was two years younger than their child, my cousin, whom I loved like a sister. The reason she said that she stayed in the marriage was for her child. That's probably why my cousin won't marry now, but I understand her motivations.
I mean my male cousin even WENT TO JAIL because he violated his probation by driving without a license. He was driving his gutter-butt other woman around at the time! Now ain't that some mess!
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