htown2DAboot
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go on a second date with a guy? Just curious, after watching a Today Show segment that only focused on the guy's answers to that question...
What are YOUR top 10 reasons why you wouldn't...
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bermudabeauty
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1. He was rude.
2. Said he wanted to sex me.
3. He can't carry a conversation.
4. He's got too many ain't gots: ie: job, car, roof over his head etc.
5. Has too many children.
6. Didn't offer to pay.
7. Texting or talking on his cell phone during our date. (got to have his attention)
8. Calls me at inappropriate times.
9. Talks about his ex-girlfriend, wife, or baby's mama too much
10. Was not an overall gentlemen and treated me like a lady
2. Said he wanted to sex me.
3. He can't carry a conversation.
4. He's got too many ain't gots: ie: job, car, roof over his head etc.
5. Has too many children.
6. Didn't offer to pay.
7. Texting or talking on his cell phone during our date. (got to have his attention)
8. Calls me at inappropriate times.
9. Talks about his ex-girlfriend, wife, or baby's mama too much
10. Was not an overall gentlemen and treated me like a lady
SvelteVelvet
Well-Known Member
1. Dull conversation/nothing to talk about/awkward silences.
2. Obvious wandering eyes/lack of focus on me
3. Sex talk
4. Expecting me to pay or going dutch
5. Lack of eye contact
6. If he makes assumptions on the type of woman I am, thinking he's reading me, rather than getting to know me and letting me decide what type of woman I am GOING to be to him, if at all.
7. Any sign that he perpetuates double-standards with men and women in his conversation.
8. Contradictory statements with actions(basically anything that makes me pause and say to myself 'What?' - usually a redflag indicator)
9. Not turning off his cell during our date or holding convos during our date.
10. If he doesn't believe in a higher power.
2. Obvious wandering eyes/lack of focus on me
3. Sex talk
4. Expecting me to pay or going dutch
5. Lack of eye contact
6. If he makes assumptions on the type of woman I am, thinking he's reading me, rather than getting to know me and letting me decide what type of woman I am GOING to be to him, if at all.
7. Any sign that he perpetuates double-standards with men and women in his conversation.
8. Contradictory statements with actions(basically anything that makes me pause and say to myself 'What?' - usually a redflag indicator)
9. Not turning off his cell during our date or holding convos during our date.
10. If he doesn't believe in a higher power.
caramelcutieinva
New Member
1. We had no chemistry
2. He showed up very late
3. He was rude to the waitress
4. He looks unkempt or like he did not dress up for the date
5. He was boring
6. He was offensive
7. He did not have money to pay for his meal
8. He does or says anything to make me feel unsafe
9. He lies
10. He shows that he is not over a past relationship
2. He showed up very late
3. He was rude to the waitress
4. He looks unkempt or like he did not dress up for the date
5. He was boring
6. He was offensive
7. He did not have money to pay for his meal
8. He does or says anything to make me feel unsafe
9. He lies
10. He shows that he is not over a past relationship
BeautifulFlower
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- Says he's a Christian but find out he knows nothing about his faith
- Sexually active
- Sex talk
- Substance abuser
- Lame/Whack
- Rude/Temper
- Ignorant or naive
- Baby Mama Drama
- No sign of personal/spiritual growth
- Tries to be affectionate (I dont play)
JustKiya
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1: Late to get me (hell, that might end the date before it starts!)
2: Dirty car (no car is actually acceptable, depending)
3: Doesn't wear a seatbelt
4: Plays filthflarnfilth in the car (on a 12th date after you know my musical tastes, okay. First date, play it safe)
5: Rude to the waitstaff
6: No good conversation
7: Not funny
8: Stupid/ignorant/narrowminded
9: Undertips
10: Talks on his phone during the date for non-work related reasons.
2: Dirty car (no car is actually acceptable, depending)
3: Doesn't wear a seatbelt
4: Plays filthflarnfilth in the car (on a 12th date after you know my musical tastes, okay. First date, play it safe)
5: Rude to the waitstaff
6: No good conversation
7: Not funny
8: Stupid/ignorant/narrowminded
9: Undertips
10: Talks on his phone during the date for non-work related reasons.
Krymsonkween
New Member
adding on to the rest I like them to:
Bad skin
Stanky breathe
smacked when he chewed
chewed with mouth open
yellow teeth
musty
wrinkled clothes
to close in my space
spit when he talked
did that coughing thing where u hack up stuff....
tried 2 touch me on the sly
Bad skin
Stanky breathe
smacked when he chewed
chewed with mouth open
yellow teeth
musty
wrinkled clothes
to close in my space
spit when he talked
did that coughing thing where u hack up stuff....
tried 2 touch me on the sly
glamazon386
Well-Known Member
Damn I need 10 whole reasons? How about I just wasn't feeling it. 
But seriously...
1. He told me he was broke and/or cheap.
2. He didn't pick up the check
3. He answered his phone during the date
4. He talked too much about himself
5. He pissed me off
6. Talks about sex on the first date
7. Bad table manners
8. He was late and didn't call
9. Too touchy feely/clingy
10. Dull conversation
But seriously...1. He told me he was broke and/or cheap.
2. He didn't pick up the check
3. He answered his phone during the date
4. He talked too much about himself
5. He pissed me off
6. Talks about sex on the first date
7. Bad table manners
8. He was late and didn't call
9. Too touchy feely/clingy
10. Dull conversation
intergalacticartist
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topsyturvy86
Well-Known Member
1) Self obsessed ... just can't stop talking about himself and his experiences
2) We have different values
3) Bad manners
4) He uses lots of slangs and/or curse words
5) I find out he's lazy and doesn't want more from life in terms of personal/spiritual develpment
6) Bad persnal hygeine
7) Loud enough to make me self-conscious in public
8) Has sex on the brain
9) Can't hold an intelligent conversation
10) Says inappropriate things
2) We have different values
3) Bad manners
4) He uses lots of slangs and/or curse words
5) I find out he's lazy and doesn't want more from life in terms of personal/spiritual develpment
6) Bad persnal hygeine
7) Loud enough to make me self-conscious in public
8) Has sex on the brain
9) Can't hold an intelligent conversation
10) Says inappropriate things
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BrooklynSouth
New Member
Compilation of horrors of men:
1. Picked his teeth with his fingers.
2. Buck naked in my bedroom after I went to make drinks for us-4th, date.
3. Dirty drawers seen after the strip down.
4. Wanted sex after the first date.
5. Told me he was healthy, confessed to multiple heart surgeries.
6. Ringworm looking bald spots at the scalp.
7. Took me to a gay club.
8. Hoped to be my gigolo
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9. Internet match sent photo of a well known model as himself.
10. My dog barked in his face from the moment he came until he left.
1. Picked his teeth with his fingers.
2. Buck naked in my bedroom after I went to make drinks for us-4th, date.
3. Dirty drawers seen after the strip down.
4. Wanted sex after the first date.
5. Told me he was healthy, confessed to multiple heart surgeries.
6. Ringworm looking bald spots at the scalp.
7. Took me to a gay club.
8. Hoped to be my gigolo
.9. Internet match sent photo of a well known model as himself.
10. My dog barked in his face from the moment he came until he left.
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LaShanne
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Compilation of horrors of men:
1. Picked his teeth with his fingers.
2. Buck naked in my bedroom after I went to make drinks for us-4th, date.
3. Dirty drawers seen after the strip down.
4. Wanted sex after the first date.
5. Told me he was healthy, confessed to multiple heart surgeries.
6. Ringworm looking bald spots at the scalp.
7. Took me to a gay club.
8. Hoped to be my gigolo
9. Internet match sent photo of a well known model as himself.
10. My dog barked in his face from the moment he came until he left.
Animals are very perceptive, especially dogs!
1. Cheap/broke
2. Can't hold a conversation
3. Calls me country or generally talks puts where I am from without even knowing me.
4. Acts like a know it all
5. Arrogant
6. Funky/musty/plain wrong smelling
7. bad breath
8. Doesn't look as good as I thought he did
9. Shows up looking wrinkled and homeless
10.Too many kids/divorces
2. Can't hold a conversation
3. Calls me country or generally talks puts where I am from without even knowing me.
4. Acts like a know it all
5. Arrogant
6. Funky/musty/plain wrong smelling
7. bad breath
8. Doesn't look as good as I thought he did
9. Shows up looking wrinkled and homeless
10.Too many kids/divorces
1. says his mom picked out his clothes / decorated his place
2. doesn't know what he wants out of life / has NO passion about anything
3. admits to wishing he could spend all his time playing video games
4. cheap. asks me to walk instead of getting a cab for us
5. bad table manners
6. hits on other women in front of me
7. can't hold 1 drink / turns into an overgrown baby if he has a drink
8. calls me 'baby' 'baby girl' 'baby doll' 'sweetie' 'honey' etc. on the 1st date because he can't remember my name. or calls me by the wrong name
9. goes on and on about how he hates lawyers
10. any statements that start with "i'm a grown a$$ man" and i'm automatically NOT listening.
11. doesn't take his hat off indoors
2. doesn't know what he wants out of life / has NO passion about anything
3. admits to wishing he could spend all his time playing video games
4. cheap. asks me to walk instead of getting a cab for us
5. bad table manners
6. hits on other women in front of me
7. can't hold 1 drink / turns into an overgrown baby if he has a drink
8. calls me 'baby' 'baby girl' 'baby doll' 'sweetie' 'honey' etc. on the 1st date because he can't remember my name. or calls me by the wrong name
9. goes on and on about how he hates lawyers
10. any statements that start with "i'm a grown a$$ man" and i'm automatically NOT listening.
11. doesn't take his hat off indoors
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TayMac
Well-Known Member
1. Boring convo or only talks about himself..not showing interest in me
2. Cheap...wouldn't let me order a drink, appetizer or dessert (not ALL of them but one of them)
3. Wanted to go dutch
4. Talked about sex or was inappropriate
5. Caught him in a lie (age, martital status, # of kids)
6. Texting or talking on the phone
7. Bad tipper or obnoxious/demanding to waitress
8. Not well groomed
9. No spark
10. cocky/arrogant
2. Cheap...wouldn't let me order a drink, appetizer or dessert (not ALL of them but one of them)
3. Wanted to go dutch
4. Talked about sex or was inappropriate
5. Caught him in a lie (age, martital status, # of kids)
6. Texting or talking on the phone
7. Bad tipper or obnoxious/demanding to waitress
8. Not well groomed
9. No spark
10. cocky/arrogant
itsdiddy
New Member
1. Talked about sex
2. Cursed too much
3. Didn't make me laugh at all
4. was rude to waitresses
5. didn't give a good tip
6. I don't care if they didn't go to college but I hate uneducated mofos
7. If he was late.... without a really good excuse
8 Didn't offer to pay the bill
9. if they didn't dress well... looked like a bum
10. If they didn't smell good
2. Cursed too much
3. Didn't make me laugh at all
4. was rude to waitresses
5. didn't give a good tip
6. I don't care if they didn't go to college but I hate uneducated mofos
7. If he was late.... without a really good excuse
8 Didn't offer to pay the bill
9. if they didn't dress well... looked like a bum
10. If they didn't smell good
BabyImaStarr
Super
1. Talking on his cell phone. That thing needs to stay on his hip for the duration of our date. I understand that some calls must be answered, but others not so much...
2. Being too conservative with his wallet and too liberal with his hands
3. Talking about sex.
4. Bringing a buddy on the date with him. It has happened. WTH?
5. Being late for the date and not providing adequate notice.
6. Having a limited conversation topic list.
7. Can't make me laugh. Nothing worse than a bore.
2. Being too conservative with his wallet and too liberal with his hands
3. Talking about sex.
4. Bringing a buddy on the date with him. It has happened. WTH?
5. Being late for the date and not providing adequate notice.
6. Having a limited conversation topic list.
7. Can't make me laugh. Nothing worse than a bore.
zzirvingj
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TriniStarr
New Member
I can not list 10 reason right now, but i can add to the list.
~who can not speak proper english. (i mean, can we leave the HIP HOP slang at home for a couple of hours?)
~talk all about what he has and have nothing to show for it.
~not able to talk about current events
~what he would like to do to me if he get in bed
~walking between me making noise with his mouth talking about how my a$$ look.
~who can not speak proper english. (i mean, can we leave the HIP HOP slang at home for a couple of hours?)
~talk all about what he has and have nothing to show for it.
~not able to talk about current events
~what he would like to do to me if he get in bed
~walking between me making noise with his mouth talking about how my a$$ look.
Everything Zen
Well-Known Member
1. No chemistry
2. Smoker/druggie/chemical abuse
3. Poor hygiene
4. Flashy attention getting cars/clothes/personality
5. Is very pushy about wanting to have sex (you will wait indefinitely with me)
6. Has children and/or MAYBE more than 1 divorce
7. Poorly spoken/improper grammar/lack of manners
8. shallow, non-thinking, unwilling to be open-minded, intelligence is MIA
9. must love art, science and nature
10. doesn't know how to cook, clean, take care of himself and looking for a women to do these things
2. Smoker/druggie/chemical abuse
3. Poor hygiene
4. Flashy attention getting cars/clothes/personality
5. Is very pushy about wanting to have sex (you will wait indefinitely with me)
6. Has children and/or MAYBE more than 1 divorce
7. Poorly spoken/improper grammar/lack of manners
8. shallow, non-thinking, unwilling to be open-minded, intelligence is MIA
9. must love art, science and nature
10. doesn't know how to cook, clean, take care of himself and looking for a women to do these things
Skiggle
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lilvudufly
New Member
1. He was rude.
2. He was loud
3. He was on his cell phone or blackberry all night
4. He was an active crminal (not used to be but active)
5. He had children but no relationship with them (based on conversation)
6. He bragged or seemed to be a liar
7. He had a horrible grill (teeth) yellow, crooked all of the above
8. He was nasty(burping, farting, cursing all the time)
9. He was immature
10. Last but not least (unwilling to have a realtionship with GOD)
2. He was loud
3. He was on his cell phone or blackberry all night
4. He was an active crminal (not used to be but active)
5. He had children but no relationship with them (based on conversation)
6. He bragged or seemed to be a liar
7. He had a horrible grill (teeth) yellow, crooked all of the above
8. He was nasty(burping, farting, cursing all the time)
9. He was immature
10. Last but not least (unwilling to have a realtionship with GOD)
Lylddlebit
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