darlingdiva
Well-Known Member
On Sunday, I ran into a friend of mine. We chatted for a few minutes, and then he reminded me that I owe him coffee. The next day, he left the following message on my Facebook wall: "Don't forget what we said on Sunday, (my name)."
Fast forward to yesterday: I checked my phone after I left work & I saw a text from my husband. He was telling me to tell my friend that he was going to bust his a$$. I asked him what was going on & he told me that he'd seen the message on my Facebook wall. He thinks that my friend was being disrespectful because, according to my husband, the message is cryptic and comes off like he and I have a secret romance, which we don't. Before Sunday, the last time that I saw him was a few days before Thanksgiving & we rarely talk on the phone. He also thinks that my friend left that message purposely for him to see.
Some backstory on my friend: We had the same major as undergraduates, so we were in a lot of the same classes. We were also very close (we talked on the phone a lot, we went to dinner and plays together, etc.). We were never in a relationship and we never slept together, though. My friend wasn't happy when my husband and I started dating b/c he thought that it would ruin our friendship.
My question is: was my friend wrong for posting that message on my wall? Is it inappropriate?
Fast forward to yesterday: I checked my phone after I left work & I saw a text from my husband. He was telling me to tell my friend that he was going to bust his a$$. I asked him what was going on & he told me that he'd seen the message on my Facebook wall. He thinks that my friend was being disrespectful because, according to my husband, the message is cryptic and comes off like he and I have a secret romance, which we don't. Before Sunday, the last time that I saw him was a few days before Thanksgiving & we rarely talk on the phone. He also thinks that my friend left that message purposely for him to see.
Some backstory on my friend: We had the same major as undergraduates, so we were in a lot of the same classes. We were also very close (we talked on the phone a lot, we went to dinner and plays together, etc.). We were never in a relationship and we never slept together, though. My friend wasn't happy when my husband and I started dating b/c he thought that it would ruin our friendship.
My question is: was my friend wrong for posting that message on my wall? Is it inappropriate?