GetHappy2014
Well-Known Member
I really didn't want to give this event any life.. But I can't stop thinking about it. So I am going to put it out there. My apologies if it's confusing...I am out with my SO (dating just a few months), his best friend of 20 years and his best friend's girlfriend (I was just meeting her for the first time). I've met his best friend previously. We three have hung out a few times. So, we all spend the day out and about: walking, talking, shopping, etc. I am finding that I really like best friend's girlfriend and I felt it was mutual. We were both surprised that we have so much in common. So we all go to dinner at the end of the day. On our way to dinner, we are all in agreement that we had a fun day, lots of laughs. The chemistry between the four of us is amazing. So while we are out to dinner, something happens..... We are seated at a half circle like booth/table in this particular order... My guy, me, my guy's best friend and her. There is a 'ledge' of some sort behind/attached to our seat with decorative ornaments of some kind on top. As we are finishing up our meal and talking, my guy extends his arm behind me on top of the seat's ledge. Her (best friend's girlfriend) arm was already extended on the ledge behind his (my guy's best friend's) back. When my guy extended his arm I briefly glanced behind me, just to see what the movement was. He rested his arm behind me. But then from the corner of my eye I can see still see movement, so I glance over (out of curiosity) just to see my guy stroking/rubbing/touching her finger/hand, I immediately turn my head away ...wondering what did I just witness . When she sees me 'look & turn away' she begins to pull her hand away while patting his (My guy's) hand. 'My' guy then immediately reacts and says, "Was that your finger ? I thought it was the ornament on the ledge. " Then my guy's best friend gets involved and asks "What happened?". My guy remarks while laughing, I thought her finger was the ornament. I said aloud, sarcastically "that was no damn ornament" . As for her...she may have been laughing but I didn't really hear her say anything, in response. At first, I dismissed it because at the very least, my guy doesn't seem to be the type that would sacrifice a 20 yr brotherly relationship, for a woman. What do you all think? Am I over reacting? I can't stop wondering, why she didn't immediately move her hand or react once he began touching it. Please weigh in.