ditto
i get that if your bf is a good catch then you want to make sure your solidifying the relationship, but not at the expense of my future and what about you being a good catch too! i dont like when women operate on this man is my only option..last man on earth style lol....like if im investing in you i want to make sure your investing in me....
i think it is wise for a woman in her college and grad school yrs to indulge in a relationship with a high caliber guy because she is exposed to all those top notch suitors who have big bright futures ahead..... by all means but i dont want to put all of my eggs in one basket and put a stand still on my life so we're investing solely in yours...
if ole girl comes from a a wealthy background and she is cool with it then i can see why she is operating on this premise...but even then have a few options around
again i can see this working if the two are on the same page..ive seen to many women invest in men who are not even sure if they are spending the rest of their lives together let alone the next semester..my thing is have options..make sure your being invested in...
this also works if the families are heavily involved....if they make the couple comfortable and are involved in the courtship to marriage this does work....but im very funny about any type of relationship and the future with no ring...talk to your mom and dad and explain im the amazing woman you want to spend the rest of ya life with/give them grand babies and they can buy the ring and we can be engaged..a marriage to follow- post graduation