tuffCOOKiE
Well-Known Member
I like hanging out with my BF and his friends who also have GF's.
This summer they rented a beach house and they met up almost every weekend. I made it a grand total of 2 times.
I'm getting sidetracked - Anyway -
The girls seem like they get along well and since I've been dating him, I've felt compelled (read: obligated) to do things with them. Hang out, make small talk, compare stories. It's like -- a little too much for me.
I like his friends but sometimes I feel like the girls 'watch' me. I can't tell if they're being nice or just asking questions to pry. Maybe it's just that I don't 'vibe' with them? I've had a little trouble making friends lately (I'm just not interested) and might seem a little 'flighty'
Have you ever felt like it was a chore to be friends with 'the Girls'? I want to be more at ease around them but like.. I dunno -
Is this what marriage is like?!!
This summer they rented a beach house and they met up almost every weekend. I made it a grand total of 2 times.
I'm getting sidetracked - Anyway -
The girls seem like they get along well and since I've been dating him, I've felt compelled (read: obligated) to do things with them. Hang out, make small talk, compare stories. It's like -- a little too much for me.
I like his friends but sometimes I feel like the girls 'watch' me. I can't tell if they're being nice or just asking questions to pry. Maybe it's just that I don't 'vibe' with them? I've had a little trouble making friends lately (I'm just not interested) and might seem a little 'flighty'
Have you ever felt like it was a chore to be friends with 'the Girls'? I want to be more at ease around them but like.. I dunno -
Is this what marriage is like?!!