Girlfriend Refused To Be Exclusive Until Her Boyfriend Proposed

[Belle Du Jour]

I haven't read Kat's book, but I've gaff and liked a few of her articles. She was recommended by some people on this forum.

This is the article she wrote about how her method differs from Rori.

http://katarinaphang.com/how-my-method-differs-to-rori-rayes/

I'd love to know what you think. I may end up getting her book.

At the end of the day, I think some of these methods appeal to different personalities. I like to take what resonates with me.

I agree. There are SO many relationship gurus out there now. I am grateful to this forum for opening my eyes to a lot of this information. I usually go by who resonates with me and with their presentation. Of course cost is a factor too. I'm willing to spend any amount of money on myself because I know I'm worth the investment, but I do think some of these gurus are only about their coins LOL. Some of what Kat says resonates. I like RR too but will just stick with the free book for now that someone generously posted.

 

[ArtsyCurls]

Say it again Sis! The most beautiful man I ever met wanted to marry me and have babies. Problem was, I had to speak to him like a child. That poor man was beautiful but dumb as a rock. I had to explain every word over two syllables to him. SMH, we would have had the most beautiful dumb babies in the world. Children just walking around bumping into walls and sh*t cause they following their dumb arse daddy. I couldn't do ya'll. I just couldn't.

This couple right here is equally yoked. And good for her for doing it right and getting what she wants.

...you just made my whole monday morning! *sips coffee* Yes you did.

 

[movingforward13]

There are SO many relationship gurus out there now.

Relationship gurus, life coaches, travel agents, credit repair... yesh...

 

[Belle Du Jour]

Relationship gurus, life coaches, travel agents, credit repair... yesh...

And many not qualified

 

[Belle Du Jour]

Apparently the woman in the OP is a dating coach https://samiwunder.com/

She credits Jeff Brown, John Gray, Rori Raye, Byron Katie and Brene Brown for her transformation that led to her meeting her husband.

 

[Belle Du Jour]

I liked what she had to say in this video:

 

[moneychaser]

I'm sitting here like wait.. what?????

Like there's no way a penis under a certain amt of inches can even touch your gspo

 

[Fine 4s]

This girl be snooping on this board following the Zaynab plan...

 

[Belle Du Jour]

This girl be snooping on this board following the Zaynab plan...

Maybe Zaynab needs to get into the relationship coaching/guru game too.

What she said make a lot of sense right? Like its SO simple! Why do we sorry about men who aren't worrying about us? Turn that energy right back to yourself.

 

[lunabelle]

Even though I'm married now I wish wish wish I had this mentality dating. Would've been so much less stress

 

[dancinstallion]

I liked what she had to say in this video:

I agree with her but to a certain exstinct. Nothing is wrong with the woman initiating. Now when that man doesn't respond back then move on.


My hoe cousin taught me if I want a man then go and get him or go talk to him. It has worked this far. Beta's and some Alpha's like this.

I made the first contact with Dh and he responded. Jessica biel made the move on Justin and got her ring.

Old classmates told me I didn't look approachable, So I took that coupled with my cousin's advice.

 

[Belle Du Jour]

I agree with her but to a certain exstinct. Nothing is wrong with the woman initiating. Now when that man doesn't respond back then move on.


My hoe cousin taught me if I want a man then go and get him or go talk to him. It has worked this far. Beta's and some Alpha's like this.

I made the first contact with Dh and he responded. Jessica biel made the move on Justin and got her ring.

Old classmates told me I didn't look approachable, So I took that coupled with my cousin's advice.

I think it's more of an exception than the rule when the woman leads and it works out...I think the point she's making is a masculine energy man will pursue. If he's not pursuing, he's not in his masculine, not interested or there's something else going on. I think if a woman wants to pursue or initiate she has to realize she's taking on a risk that is typically assumed by men...and she may be leading for the duration of the relationship. Different strokes for different folks though. There's no one size fits all

 

[Zaynab]

Maybe Zaynab needs to get into the relationship coaching/guru game too.

What she said make a lot of sense right? Like its SO simple! Why do we sorry about men who aren't worrying about us? Turn that energy right back to yourself.

Wait who is streaming stealing from me

 

[Ganjababy]

He would need to get rhinoplasty before we walk down the aisle

 

[Belle Du Jour]

Wait who is streaming stealing from me

I think Fine 4s was saying these relationship gurus are probably spying on us and stealing our material LOL

 

[caribeandiva]

I truly want my time back from reading that. Next time OP, lead with the pic lol!

 

[Choclatcotton]

As for his looks, all he needs is a little facial hair and time to give him that yummy rugged look.

 

[caribeandiva]

As for his looks, all he needs is a little facial hair and time to give him that yummy rugged look.

Time in the gym will definitely give him that look

 

[Belle Du Jour]

She's baaaaccckkk
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-5532911/Get-Ring-coach-says-women-refuse-exclusive.html

ETA: folks are blowing a gasket in the comment section

 

[LdyKamz]

She's baaaaccckkk
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-5532911/Get-Ring-coach-says-women-refuse-exclusive.html

ETA: folks are blowing a gasket in the comment section

Why do I feel like someone posted one of her dating advice videos in another thread? Do her and the Katerina lady have a similar look or am I thinking of someone else?

 

[Belle Du Jour]

Why do I feel like someone posted one of her dating advice videos in another thread? Do her and the Katerina lady have a similar look or am I thinking of someone else?

I did post one of her videos in this thread a few pages back. Not sure if she was also posted in another thread? I like her style.

 

[IslandMummy]

She's baaaaccckkk
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-5532911/Get-Ring-coach-says-women-refuse-exclusive.html

ETA: folks are blowing a gasket in the comment section

She has dead eyes but make that schmoney Sami. Cute kid.

 

[Belle Du Jour]

She has dead eyes but make that schmoney Sami. Cute kid.

She said that she has a 6 almost 7 figure business. Helping single women is apparently big business.

 

[caribeandiva]

She said that she has a 6 almost 7 figure business. Helping single women is apparently big business.

I don’t doubt it. It plays on most women’s fear of ending up alone. That field is booming!

 

[Belle Du Jour]

I don’t doubt it. It plays on most women’s fear of ending up alone. That field is booming!

this used to be free info our mothers and grandmothers taught us.

 

[shortycocoa]

this used to be free info our mothers and grandmothers taught us.

Mine didn't teach me ish... I feel like I had to figure a lot of stuff out on my own. If I could relive my teens up until now with the info I have today, I would have done a lot of things differently.

 

[SpiritJunkie]

I liked what she had to say in this video:

I like her...thanks!