CurleeDST
Well-Known Member
Scenario: When you met your ex husband he was married with no children. He cheated on his first wife with you and you end up pregnant. He divorces ex wife and marries you. You both get divorced about 4 years later. You have a son together and he is 4 years old when you are divorced.
Fast forward when your son is 9 years old. He reluctantly comes home after a weekend visit with his dad and tells you he met his 6-year old brother. After probing your son (he tells you his dad told him never to tell you) you find out the mother is your ex husband's FIRST wife.
Since you are now divorced from the man yet learn he fathered a baby while you 2 were still married what if anything would you say to him and your son (who is looking pretty much confused by the entire situation)?
Fast forward when your son is 9 years old. He reluctantly comes home after a weekend visit with his dad and tells you he met his 6-year old brother. After probing your son (he tells you his dad told him never to tell you) you find out the mother is your ex husband's FIRST wife.
Since you are now divorced from the man yet learn he fathered a baby while you 2 were still married what if anything would you say to him and your son (who is looking pretty much confused by the entire situation)?