The ex hubby has another child

[noemi]

Biggest ho*s, on planet Earth..
.. are walkin through the motherf**** neighborhood
You KNEW when you got with the n***a he already had a woman
You knew he already had a family
but you f***ed him anyway!!!
And then when you thought you gon' lose the n****a
you went and got pregant - didn't you b**ch, DIDN'T YOU!!
THE OL' KEEP A N***A BABY
And then when the n***a ain't around, what do you tell the child?
"Aww that n***a ain't ****, that's why yo' daddy ain't here;
cause that n****a ain't ****."
How bout bein a woman, and tellin the kid the truth
that yo' momma, you was a hoe!
TELL THE KID!
Momma was a hoe, I was weekend p****y
I had you to keep the n****a, it didn't work out
that's why he ain't here - but he a good n****a
cause he take care of his REAL family
I was just a dumb b***h, tryin to keep, a n***a that I wanted





Don't mind me, I have my ipod on shuffle.

Sad, but true.

 

[CurleeDST]

I think you hit the nail RIGHT on the head! It was very selfish of the first wife but I think she definitely got some vindication and the last laugh from being hurt by these 2 individuals. She WAS the innocent one in this triangle in the beginning.

telling a kid to keep such a secret is wrong and he needs to be told that it is not acceptable to place a child with such a burden, but the rest....is just about somebody needing to pick their face and pride off the floor and keep moving, 1st wife got the revenge of ALL revenges...i mean, come on, this is brilliant, how many 1st wives who get cheated on and have hubby marry the jump-off get the opportunity to turn the tables?! HA! luvs it!

 

[IntoMyhair]

I would let it go, since the ex cheated on the 1st wife with the 2nd then he cheated on the 2nd with the 1st. Leopards don't change their spots. Ya didn't see that one coming???

ETA: It was wrong what he told the child to do (secret). I would address that only.

I would also be glad he is my EX.

 

[Honey6928215]

From the looks of it you got a taste of your own medicine. But I wouldn't involve a child in this like your ex. Now that is wrong. He shouldn't have put out the burden on him like that. Why would your ex want to keep it a secert in the first place since you two are divorced anyway?

 

[CurleeDST]

FYI folks this is NOT a scenario of my life.

I found this scenario intriguing and started a discussion on it.

From the looks of it you got a taste of your own medicine. But I wouldn't involve a child in this like your ex. Now that is wrong. He shouldn't have put out the burden on him like that. Why would your ex want to keep it a secert in the first place since you two are divorced anyway?

 

[CurleeDST]

I agree with you. What is so real about it? B/c someone threw out some explicitives and derogatory terms about women?

We women need to wake up and respect ourselves and each other.

A man willing to cheat with you on the side isn't a man. And the side chick isn't special simply b/c she got a married man to hook up with her. Our egos are bigger than men and for some women it is a proud badge to get a man to cheat with them.

I find it pitiful and sorry.

See, I don't call stuff like this "real talk". I call it misogyny. Because, yes, the woman is wrong. But how is the father a "good n***a" when he was lapping up that "weekend p***y"? If he was so into his "real family" , why was he out making more babies? They're both wrong, so I'm not going to play "blame the slut". I take that back. I will play that game, because they're both sluts.