Hi, Mahalialee!
Updating:
1. Yes, I know of the Sapote (Mamey) fruit. The frozen pulp is sold here in NYC in Korean/Dominican markets. It's a Dominican/Puerto Rican product.
Never used it on my hair. Only drank in shakes.
2. Whole milk SPRAYED on my new growth and left on my hair for at least 1 hour with a plastic cap is now a normal part of my routine when I have the time and will be wearing my hair in a straight style (I'm transitioning). Nothing has worked better for me and I've tried Hennalucent, coconut cream, and condensed unsweetened milk.
The condensed unsweetened milk surprising did not work as well as the WHOLE MILK (in the container).
The coconut cream did not do much. (I used it alone, no lime/lemon.)
The Hennalucent, I'm still using every few weeks (mixed with Jojoba oil, avocado oil, conditioner, etc.), but I don't THINK I've really noticed any major de-bulking which is what I really wanted.
Hmmmm, might have to try HennaJoy's henna later on this summer.
I SPRAY the milk on because I don't want to over condition (too much protein) my relaxed hair. Spraying the milk on keeps it where I want it (only on my new growth). Of course it drips down, but not too much. [I use the milk alone, no lime/lemon added.]
I'm 5 months into transitioning and I do think that the whole milk "relaxing" helps a lot when I want to rollerset.