jupitermoon
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How often do you cowash or wash your hair? Do you fully detangle each time, or only after a certain period of time?
I've seen a few wl and beyond ladies who wash once or twice a month, quite a few who do so weekly, and some that seem to do multiple cowashes a week.
Those that do multiple cowashes a week, is it for moisture or to keep a clean scalp?
TIA
Lately I've only been washing once a week and sometimes twice. I fully detangle each times using my fingers. Using my fingers I go from tip to root and keep "raking" my fingers through my hair until no more shed hair comes out. I divide my hair into four sections to do this.
I wash to keep a clean scalp, for moisture, and also to detangle. I only comb my hair while wet and with conditioner.
how often did you all trim while on the way to WL?
some people say that trimming is imperative, yet if there are no split ends, why trim, right? (the ones who think it's imperative also many times say that it jump starts growth, is this true?)
thanks!
I trimmed as needed. I was still transitioning while I was growing my hair from bra strap to waist length so I got a few mini trims that summer.
I see that most ladies with length protective style their hair in some way or another. Please believe I'm trying to achieve WL status at some point in life but I'm a long ways from it right now. I'm only BSB on a good day. Do you really enjoy your length since he's almost always hidden, tucked away, under a wig, braided up, etc?
I never wear wigs or braids. It's always loose in a wash and go up do, bun, ponytail, down somestimes, etc. I think hair can get so long that it actually gets in the way and becomes uncomfortable. Really long hair can get caught in things so I keep it up a lot out of convenience. I don't hesitate to take it down though like if I get a bad headache, etc. from an updo. I've taken it down at work for this reason.
So I do enjoy my hair. I don't feel as if I have to hide my hair or only keep it in buns, etc. Most days I keep it up and out of the way and don't even think about it.
are people in awe of your hair?
do people think it's weave even tho you tell them otherwise?
if you had short hair before (shoulder length n down) does if feel as good as i imagine it would to show your hair to those who doubted you before? =)
Some people are in awe of my hair then other's don't really notice/care.
Some people don't believe me when I tell them that my hair is real but most people do actually. I hope I don't gross anyone out by saying this, but I'm a hairy woman so I think people look at the hair on my arms, sideburns, heavy eyebrows, etc. and just assume that the hair on my head could really be mine. My hair fits my features.
The shortest my hair has ever been was shoulder length and it does feel good knowing that I can grow it out and that cutting it isn't a big deal because it will grow.
About how long did it take you to go from MBL to WL?
Not long. I remember the beginning of that summer starting at bra strap and I was waist length by the beginning of that fall.
What was the hardest point to get past; APL, BSL or MBL?
None of them were hard for me, but my hair seems to start growing slower at waist length then by the time it gets to the top of tailbone it seems to stop growing for a while.
Hey WL+ ladies..
I see a lot of you guys using just normal drug store products...
1.) Are there any high end or natural products that you swear by.. or do you think it just doesn't matter?
2.) Do you now or have you ever stayed away from sulfates/parabens/alcohols in products?
3.) Last question those that wear their hair down *most* of the time.. how do you care for it when you sleep?
Thanks ladies! GROW on withya bad selves!
I use Giovanni conditioners because they are cone free. I am cone free because it takes my hair less time to dry when I don't use cones. Also my hair tangles less.
I believe in using whatever works. I've tried some high end expensive products and I wasn't impressed. Some cheaps products can work just as well if not better than the high end stuff. Prior to going cone free Aussie Moist and Herbal Essence Hello Hydration for my staples. Plus a lot of the products that claim to be natural aren't very natural.
I try to avoid sulfates, but I find that shampoos tend to dry my hair out even when sulfate free so I'll still use them. I very rarely shampoo my hair anyway.