Scorpios can be trying to work with
.. especially mine. I have to check his dominance at the bedroom (or living room or kitchen
) door because I find that all Scorpios have this caustic energy and thus the tendency to be somewhat overbearing if they are really invested in an issue. They don't mean to be this way--but it just like they have all this passion bottled up and then it overflows. I have to check SO sometimes.
He can also be extremely moody, but he does not wish to articulate his moodiness. I think this is because he even knows he is being ridiculous so he just has to wait for his 'extra'ness to subside so he can KIM. He is also the sort of man to hold on to something and resent you later on--so I have to inspire conversation in him to get out any kinks or annoyances. I had to let him know he needed to miss me with that mind reader bullish and to start him talking more I abruptly stop doing things to anticipate how he'd feel because I am a big communicator and I didn't want to be driving myself into a rut trying to figure him out. Not for me.
I really feel sorry for the person that crosses him--because they really do have that stinger.
He gets out of pocket sometime and I have to remind him to tone it down because I find with most Scorpios I know (which are basically all of my friends) they do not repay bad things equally. That passion turns into a certain type of exaggerated anger and they will say the most cutting things because their intuition allows them to see weakness and lies very quickly.
They really aren't for play if you don't want to be told about yourself at some point in time. I do say you have to handle them a lot more gently than they may handle you at times because I find that SO will get his ego hurt quickly and not say anything so I try to fall back on the criticism.
I do enjoy the intense loyalty and unspoken love that radiates from them. He isn't the I love you type and neither are my two best friends that are November Scorps--but I know the depth of their emotions somehow. Even though he is highly sexual I never worry about him cheating on me at all. He has a small jealous streak, but I like the slight possessive feel. It is nice to know you are valued and wanted and that people are aware that those things could change and they don't want them to. I am a Taurus so I pretty much want to be the only girl in the room/universe when it comes to my mayun.
But yeah
he is a good partner and a great father! I love to watch him and DD play together. He has more patience than me and to be such a 'macho' man he can do lots of domestic things I cannot do or hate to do like sewing, cleaning, and although I can cook so can he! So yeah!