meka72
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His thread kind of feels self congratulatory about how well he played her.
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Saludable84
Better Late Than Ugly
He played her, got her pity, used her as a mule and likely talked her out of a prenup
bellatiamarie
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I agree. I hate this for her. We all know how this story ends.... he will eventually leave her because she saw him at his lowest and his ego won’t be able to live with that. He will get with someone that has only known him as “successful.” I hope she finds real love.
Bette Davis Eyes
The "OG" Product Junkie
Been there done that. Tried to build up a "man" up and put him in the path of opportunities.
Trashiest mistake of my LIFE.
Nah, sis.
I'll take single for the win.
Trashiest mistake of my LIFE.
Nah, sis.
I'll take single for the win.
RoundEyedGirl504
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Why do uncute men send so many selfies? Like I’m Trying to ignore that about you and you keep throwing it in my face lol!
You can't tell a man that he isn't attractive. It be the ashiest, dry-lipped, unibrow having fools that are the worst offenders.
RoundEyedGirl504
Well-Known Member
Right. And will be picky about a woman’s looks in a heartbeat.
Saludable84
Better Late Than Ugly
And will tell you their dealbreakers like they have every right. Male entitlement is really something else.
RoundEyedGirl504
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Just was having the conversation how women will compromise to not be alone. and men don’t feel like they have to because they figure they can always get someone.
Saludable84
Better Late Than Ugly
It’s very true. Or settle until they find what they really want and not care who they hurt in the process. But when we do this, Kanye making songs about how we are heartless.
Kookookiwi
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Today is a rough day. I’ve been doing so well with the breakup, but I’m packing for a move and everything is hitting me at once.
It’s like an entire chapter of my life is over. I’m leaving my first home that I invested so much love, money and time into, my friends, I no longer love the man I thought I’d spend my life with in that way, and to top it all off I’m doing all of this alone.
I’ll be ok. Just needed an outlet I guess.
It’s like an entire chapter of my life is over. I’m leaving my first home that I invested so much love, money and time into, my friends, I no longer love the man I thought I’d spend my life with in that way, and to top it all off I’m doing all of this alone.
I’ll be ok. Just needed an outlet I guess.
Chazz
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Kimiche
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"I'm single again, back on the prowl!" The guy that I was seeing ended it, because he is set on not having kids and I definitely want to have kids. 
He said that he did a lot of thinking and he didn't want this to hurt me in the future, so he'd rather end it. We were definitely into each other and decided to give it a try due to our attraction to each other. I still do not understand his reason for not wanting them although he explained it to me, but I respect his feelings and I am moving on.
He said that he did a lot of thinking and he didn't want this to hurt me in the future, so he'd rather end it. We were definitely into each other and decided to give it a try due to our attraction to each other. I still do not understand his reason for not wanting them although he explained it to me, but I respect his feelings and I am moving on.
Kookookiwi
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Chazz
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Your welcomeThank you.
I’m ok - it was just an emotional night.
KimPossibli
Supergirl
I'm going through a major depression episode and I'm trying to not engage with men cause I feel like my immune system is compromised and I don't wanna play myself
it is hard tbh
it is hard tbh
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LovingLady
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What do you during your free time?
KimPossibli
Supergirl
I've been adding more workouts to my schedule and hanging out as much as possible with gfs who aren't doing male obsession
Evolving78
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Try some magnesium and zinc. They help with anxiety and depression. I suggest a gratitude journal and write at least 10 things you are grateful for everyday. Are you working with a doctor or therapist? That’s really good you are exercising. That helps the mind and body a lot.
I realized my cycle really does a number on my body and mental state. Check with your Doctor about that too.
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KimPossibli
Supergirl
I am, re doctor and therapist. will look into the magesium and zinc. I journal according to an exercise from my therapy.
Evolving78
Well-Known Member
That is good! Just remember to take it one day at a time! That sounds cliche’, but it’s really all we can do! I can totally empathize with how you may feel and even your concerns about dating. I wake up in darkness every morning and do several things to bring me into the day of light.
shespoison
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I’m so annoyed with these ninjas. I’m taking a “break” and I’m realizing that I never have been not seeing anyone in some capacity.
Even this break won’t be official because I got a friendbae that I don’t think I can ever get rid of because sadly, he’s my closest and most consistent friend.
I need to fix my life but I am having a hard time finding a therapist.
Even this break won’t be official because I got a friendbae that I don’t think I can ever get rid of because sadly, he’s my closest and most consistent friend.
I need to fix my life but I am having a hard time finding a therapist.
BrownBetty
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shespoison
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Thank you. I've used both of those links before. For some reason I am still having trouble.
The idea of unloading all my crazy stories on a stranger is frightening. I only want a black woman around my age but the chances that we run in the same circles are high. I am pretty sure that its anxiety that has me thinking like that. What's a girl to do?
BrownBetty
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I would suggest expanding your age range a bit more or be open to someone other than a Black woman, I know i know.
Your concerns are valid this is why I went older also. I don't want to go out for drinks and run into my therapist in the bar bathroom... which has happened to someone I know.
All that being said try an older black woman.
Your concerns are valid this is why I went older also. I don't want to go out for drinks and run into my therapist in the bar bathroom... which has happened to someone I know.
All that being said try an older black woman.
LostInAdream
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Sometimes older black women don’t understand. Try to find one outside of your circle I know of one I went to school with but she’s in N.J.
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