@LdyKamz, Thanks so much for responding! Funny thing is I work in the legal field as well and she wanted to hook me up with one of the attorneys. I told her no and she hasn’t let it go completely because she’ll mention it ever so often. There is a guy that works here who she thinks has a crush on me. I told her he’s married and up to last week her response was “since when has that stopped them?” Smh! This is coming from a married woman who has so much to say about relationships, infidelity, etc.
She did something again this week that basically sealed the deal about how I feel about us being cool let alone friends. Being that we work together and she’s bossy, I know the cold shoulder won’t work that easily.
You mentioned something (people like that are trying to live a 2nd life) and I’ve always thought that’s why she’s trying to tell me to do. When she started she told me about what she wanted to do career wise, etc. and I think she’s telling me to do these things because that’s what she would have done. The thing is none of these things don’t fall into my short or long term goals.
Sigh!