I posted this in the Manifesting Mavens thread, and want to post it here, too:
Does anyone remember that thing on the internet a long time ago called 101 Things in 1001 Days? Back then, I made a list of 101 things, and the list seemed to be magical in that it took on a life of its own. Opportunities to accomplish these things seemed to magically appear. There was something crazy I put on there, which was to hold a snake in my hands. I had never done that before, and didn't really like snakes. I just wanted to do something crazy. Well, one day, shortly after making the list, I went to my
usual grocery store, and there was a girl who appeared to be about 18 or 19 standing at the entrance holding a white snake around her shoulders! She had a resting (b)itch face, and was staring off into the distance. But she was black, so I felt comfortable going up to her for a chat. She was friendly. I asked her if I could hold the snake, and she gave it to me. All I was thinking was "Check mark on my list!"
I did not have to go anywhere special like a pet store or zoo. I did not know anyone with a snake. It was like magic. There were other things that happened like that. I think the list was a way of expecting something to happen, but also letting go of the "how." After those years, I made another list, but it was different. I felt like I needed to accomplish certain things in life, and I put things on there that weren't very fun. It ended up looking like a giant to-do list, and nothing magical happened. I think the key is putting things on there that you are excited about.
I've decided to manifest the romantic relationship of my dreams using this method. Before, I just wanted a relationship, maybe even marriage. Then I thought of certain questions, like "Why do I want this?" and "What do I really want to do and to feel?" So I am making a list of 101 things to do
as a couple with my romantic partner. I'm halfway done with the list. The good thing is, I'll have a good time for a long time no matter who ends up being my romantic partner.
Does anyone want to join me in manifesting a great romance? Swap ideas?
(Maybe I should make this a thread by itself.)