I've been on dates every night for the past 3 nights. I have one more coming up on Thursday with Diplomat. He wanted to see me tomorrow but I asked to move to Thursday because I need a break. So...
1. Saturday with my first love. 1/4 Sudanese 3/4 African-American. I always thought he would decide to come after me when I was with someone and I think that it's happening.
He's halfway through residency and is thinking about coming to the medical center in my area to do his fellowship. *facepalm* Whether he gets it or not he wants to visit the area again. He talked so much **** about the Bay Area but now that he's been here he likes it.
Me thinks him being with all those crazy wypipo back East in Orange Hitler territory has gotten to him. Anyway our connection is still the same. We never run out of things to talk about. He reminds me so much of my dad it's not even funny. When we first met I loved it. Now, not so much. I'm a lot like my dad so I actually need someone more like my mom. My dad's a doctor too so when I told my mom how our dinner was she's like, "this is so much like your father it's not even funny." He's as passive as he ever was. I thought it was because he didn't like me, now I get this is how he is. Not for me. Not romantically anyways.
2. Sunday with Tesla. He's Indian. I had fun with him but he's a bit too soft spoken. I had to have him repeat things for me a few times. He's more passive than I'd like so I had to direct the conversation which I know will get old. I had a good time with him but I'm not sure that I see romance here. First off, I had to plan where we went. And then he got lost getting to the place. And he asked if I wanted to pay half the bill. Now maybe he wanted to pay all of it but was following my lead but I want a man to take the lead, at least in the initial stages so no. He's a perfectly nice guy, just not for me.
3. Tonight with MFT. He's Salvadorean, he treated me to a Salvadorean restaurant and I loved the food. I had so much fun with him. People wouldn't think he'd be my type based on appearance but I laughed so much. He and my mom are in the same profession and went to the same grad school actually. We talked about serious things and stupid things and just enjoyed each other's company. I would've kept talking to him more but the place was closing and I had a long day so I was getting tired. I'd be up for another date. Given that he's an MFT and I'm the daughter of one, there's certain things we understand about relationships and I like that we both want to move slowly, not rush and let things happen naturally.
4. I have my second date with Diplomat on Thursday. He's half Russian/half Egyptian. Out of all these men I'm the most physically attracted to him. He says he's not interested in moving fast physically, which only heightens my interest.
Anyway I like how take charge he is. Even though I picked the location because he's coming closer to me, he picked the time. He's a bit of a workaholic which concerns me. He's a Capricorn as is my first love, they were born on the same day actually. We'll see. He gets under my skin more than the other men do. I said upthread he reminds me how American I am. It's not bad but its unnerving.