He's actually fine af. turns out he's wh-asian
I am of an age where boring is a good MFing thing if I'm seriously considering a mate for myself and as a stepfather to my child. Boring would hit the spot. Had enough excitement in the relationship portion of my life for 2 lifetimes.
anyways ladies. he asked again. I said no.
He's still pursuing. if he asks again, I'll go....
I'm quoting an old post of mine as a refresher on this damn super. He won't go away. When he got fired I immediately deleted his number because I didn't need it. So today I get a text of a party flyer for a party in Brooklyn. I did a quick scan of my phone to make sure it wasn't spam and when it wasn't I just ignored it. So then another flyer text comes again and I send a ? back. The fool responds saying oh sorry I sent the flyer for last year the first time. I was like who dis? He says "it's ______. How soon we forget" Bro, I'm. Not. Interested! So I text him back to say oh when you stopped working with the building I deleted your number since I didn't need it anymore. He replies ok so how you been? I just deleted and blocked. Is he delusional?Some of y'all may remember pages back when I mentioned the super coming in my apartment and calling my name and then when I came out he gonna say my door was open which was a lie. He's the reason I bought the chain lock and the door stopper thing under the knob. Anyway he's getting fired. They sent us a message saying he couldn't work with the building anymore but the new super came today and told me the landlord is getting rid of him and he doesn't know why but he won't get involved.
You don't know how happy I am!!! This guy was very nice in the beginning and I felt comfortable around him. But then he started to hit on me occasionally and I ignored it. It was harmless at first and I would politely put him off with no thanks, or I'm busy. But then he started texting me and inviting me to things regularly and then texting me on whatsapp so he could see if I read his messages. I just flat out stopped responding to him and everything stayed broke in my apartment because I didn't want him in here. The last time he was here he was supposed to fix my bathtub and he kept saying he had to come back but something about that didn't feel right. It felt like he was working up to something with me. Not sure if he was going to try something or what but I let him come back once and then started ignoring him. New super showed up this morning and fixed the darn thing in exactly 5 minutes. I was like you're done already he was looking likewhy wouldn't I be?
I'm starting to think other women in the building complained as well because when the landlord told us the new super was starting and I gave him a list of things I needed done and how many times it's been looked at he kinda snapped at me and said "you guys should have told me ____ was dragging out fixing these things" as if I wasn't the first person to speak of his constant visits but nothing getting fixed. But I didn't know he was doing that only suspected it so he could get in my apartment. And I didn't want to sound silly like "Oh I think he keeps coming back because he's into me" These situations are difficult for single women because I'm always wondering if I'm reading too much into things. Like what if I complained and it wasn't what I thought at all.
I asked my sister to come over for the new super so I wouldn't be here alone but he came too early for her to get here so I called her on the phone. He could sense I was nervous I guess so he mentioned his wife and children like 10 times.That made me feel better. I need to get a man in here so he can fix things and I can stop worrying about new supers.
These dudes are boring. It just reiterated I am not for real trying to date, although if I met someone in person I'd be more inclined to entertain it. Everybody on there is counting passport stamps and going to the gym. Like what else you got? 
I need y’all to see the clapping hands 
I don’t like it but I don’t have social media other than Twitter and I keep my account locked for just that reason. I be like “look me up if you want to...”
Hold on! Some Sucka was clapping at you? I snap and clap at my kids to get their attention. I do that to avoid certain folks hearing me get them in order.
The audacity!!!!!!!!!
We def need a clapping hands emoji!
I have 2 co-workers who are also hating the job right now, and both their husbands told them they could quit if they want.
First time in awhile I’ve really resented being single.
I’m thankful too. These men. 
I have to keep a sense of humor about it. OKC doesn’t allow sexual pics in messages anymore so men have taken to talking about their alcohol and drug adventures instead. Do they seriously think it’s attractive? Especially when I say I rarely drink.Me too! Lol I like a man with some edge to him. That’s why I need to be by myself for awhile. I like men that don’t take no ish.Why am I attracted to men who just are simply no good, I really don't understand myself sometimes.
I put it down to simply liking a bit of 'rough' sometimes.
Why am I attracted to men who just are simply no good, I really don't understand myself sometimes.
I put it down to simply liking a bit of 'rough' sometimes.
I like the allure of these masculine gruff guys. Tried it a couple of times
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