ItsMeLilLucky
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@UniquelyDivine that sounds like someone I know.
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On the beach in Mexico with my sis as I type this.
Ok, this guy is texting me too much considering we haven't had a first date yet. If I knew we had in-person chemistry maybe I wouldn't mind. But our first date isn't until this weekend. So the incessant texting is a bit anxiety-provoking and I already struggle with anxiety. It might be a cultural difference because he didn't grow up in the US or the West for that matter. But I need to put a stop to it or I'm not going to like him anymore.
Just basic stuff. Like "Good morning" "How's your day going?" "What are you up to today?" "Such-and-such happened at work." "Good night." It's annoying because I'm busy during the day. I don't need to know every little thing that happens in his day. We're not there yet.What kind of stuff is he texting about?
Just basic stuff. Like "Good morning" "How's your day going?" "What are you up to today?" "Such-and-such happened at work." "Good night." It's annoying because I'm busy during the day. I don't need to know every little thing that happens in his day. We're not there yet.
Just basic stuff. Like "Good morning" "How's your day going?" "What are you up to today?" "Such-and-such happened at work." "Good night." It's annoying because I'm busy during the day. I don't need to know every little thing that happens in his day. We're not there yet.
I respond back quickly. Luckily it doesn't last long. The thing is I got so anxious and distracted from my work yesterday I turned my phone off and my anxiety went down pretty quickly. I'm trying to cut back on my phone use anyway to help with my anxiety. He's already told me a little about his past relationships so I don't think it's lack of experience. I think he's a little needy. If we'd met organically I'd maybe be ok with it. But when I started online dating I made a conscious decision to not get comfortable talking on the phone before we meet in person so I won't build up expectations.Yea that's annoying. If he doesn't have a lot of experience with women he could be afraid you'll lose interest if he doesn't keep in contact before your date. Or he may have dated women in the past who expected daily communication. How do you respond?
Yes!!If a person has children, and when asked or when discussed they say all their children are "normal/healthy" but then when you meet the child/children they look special needs (physically and mentally). Is this a red flag?
I will admit I like to text even though I see the general consensus on the board is not to do it often. Daily texting and full on text conversations before a first date seem a little extreme even to me (again a person who prefers texting). If you talked online, had one or 2 phone conversations, then made a date for the weekend then all the extra communication is unnecessary. If he wants to talk and keep momentum going, he can call but I don't think it's all that necessary anyway since you 2 will be meeting in person soon. Doing all of that does build you up for an even greater let down if you realize there's no connection in person. I would just not respond to all the extras. Hey how's your day going is cool but that's about it.I respond back quickly. Luckily it doesn't last long. The thing is I got so anxious and distracted from my work yesterday I turned my phone off and my anxiety went down pretty quickly. I'm trying to cut back on my phone use anyway to help with my anxiety. He's already told me a little about his past relationships so I don't think it's lack of experience. I think he's a little needy. If we'd met organically I'd maybe be ok with it. But when I started online dating I made a conscious decision to not get comfortable talking on the phone before we meet in person so I won't build up expectations.
The bolded is what I'm afraid of. We've had two phone conversations which have been great but it could all amount to nothing if our in person connection isn't the same and he admitted to me as such.Doing all of that does build you up for an even greater let down if you realize there's no connection in person. I would just not respond to all the extras. Hey how's your day going is cool but that's about it.
Don't know why but the combination of him being Kenyan and sneaking goat neat has me rollinTurns out he had ordered a plate of roasted goat meat from the outdoor grill in the back and was eating it alone
He'd been buying her drinks all night but didn't order any food for her