Evolving78
Well-Known Member
I tell people right away about my children, since they appear normal looking on the outside. People talk to them like they are normal and my children might not understand what that person is saying, or trying to do.If a person has children, and when asked or when discussed they say all their children are "normal/healthy" but then when you meet the child/children they look special needs (physically and mentally). Is this a red flag?
With that all being said, that person is in denial, or wants their not normal child to be treated normal, and it just doesn’t work like that. Plus, somebody needs to be given the chance to decide if that is something they want to get involved with it. I try not to say deal with anymore, because dealing with something doesn’t mean accepting something. Big red flag. Somebody on yt said they are praying for their child to be cured of ASD...that kinda messed me up.. it’s not a disease. It’s just a person on spectrum just operates differently. So you have folks out there still waiting on a magical vaccine, or some type of food that will make the ASD go away... red flag...