Red Lobster is more like a we've been together for a while and we know we like them biscuits so let's go kind of placeSo the first time we’re going out you suggest red lobster
I’m not too good for it but that’s your first choice.
One and done.
I'm 32 and it seems like I attract either younger, like mid 20s to about 28, or older, like 38+. I was out of town this weekend and had a date with a 26 year old. He's not my type, but it was fun. In my experiences, young guys are full of energyI've been feeling more relaxed, focused, and happier, chipping away at my life goals. Dating was stressful. Lately, I've been attracting younger men. Men in their 20s. But I don't think I'm brave enough to go there. That might be fun, though...
), tall, ex military type. For these reasons I had to decline. I attract these fine ass men who aint ****. I'm learning to weed thdm out fast... however next time might consider one as s maintenance man 
I'm 32 and it seems like I attract either younger, like mid 20s to about 28, or older, like 38+. I was out of town this weekend and had a date with a 26 year old. He's not my type, but it was fun. In my experiences, young guys are full of energy
. They've always liked me, but after the bad experience with my ex-fiancé, I set my sights on trying to attract the opposite and it caused me nothing but heartache. I had to accept that the sexy, popular, charming, alpha males that most women desire aren't into me. I got tired of putting on an act to get and keep their attention. I always felt anxious and on edge with them, and I never felt a genuine connection. Now I can chill and be myself. This guy is a healthy beta who does well for himself-- good job, super intelligent, comes from a great family, owns property, is a goal-oriented doer, and is super into me for once. He's bald, tall, skinny, and wears thick glasses. He's a bit of a hermit. He dresses like a software developer. And I'm crazy about him. The sexual chemistry is amazing. We connect on so many levels. If it doesn't work out, I can find plenty more, and I know they'll see me as the prize because we're a natural match. I don't care about being the "it" girl anymore and winning the man that every woman wants. Some women naturally have "it" and they find the challenge fun but I find it exhausting. I've chosen to take the path of least resistance and so far so good! He spoiled me for my birthday and I'm meeting his parents next week. He initiates and I don't have to do anything-- no plotting, planning, strategizing... nothing. I finally understand what the older folks have been telling me all of these years-- like who likes you. It makes our lives as women so much easier!
So the first time we’re going out you suggest red lobster
I’m not too good for it but that’s your first choice.
One and done.
Thanks doll!
. I hadn't logged in in over a month and decided to just sign on for a bit before fully deactivating. Lo and behold, he reached out like the day before I was going to shut it down. It's worth a shot-- even for practice dates.
Thanks for sharing! It's encouraging.I met my guy on OKC and at that time I was DONE with online dating
Yeah I read your post about your first date when you announced your engagement (Congratulations btw!). I didn't know it was OKC though. OKC used to get a bad rap a few years ago but now I keep hearing how great they do with compatibility.I met my FH on OKC!
My future BIL's bff met his wife on OKC!
Funny you mention astrology. That’s another reason I want to try this. 2018 supposedly is a good time for me to get into a relationship. At least that’s what my astrologer said and I don’t want to waste it. Now I need to see what my therapist says.
The whole site is totally different. You can't see messages anymore unless you "like" the person. So if a dude messages you it stays on his profile and does not come to your inbox but if you have notifications turned on they send an email saying one of these men messaged you. Then they add him to your matches so you can swipe through to see him. It will tell you that this user messaged you but you can't read it unless you click that you like him. They said it was to avoid women from getting all those random messages from men they didn't like over and over. Whatever.
It accepted two letters as a first name thank goodness. I tried to go with just one letter but that didn't work. At least it's not my real initials.
