ms.tatiana
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I get annoyed so easily lol
I get annoyed so easily lol
Have any of y’all ever had a weird feeling about a guy that’s super nice but there is just something that is throwing you off & you can’t figure out what it is?
I’m big on using discernment but at face value he is doing everything right, communicates with me throughout the day, actually calls and doesn’t just text, makes plans & has been nothing but respectful but I feel nothing & I actually get annoyed when I see his calls & texts flash across my notifications.
I’m feeling like I’ have serious issues
I agreeThrowing you off, like something ain't right about him...if thats ur instinct, ur probably right. I think we as wonen are blessed with the gift of instinct, but a lot of times, we don't want to trust ourselves with our gut feelings. After my last situation, i will always go with my gut for now on.
Have any of y’all ever had a weird feeling about a guy that’s super nice but there is just something that is throwing you off & you can’t figure out what it is?
I’m big on using discernment but at face value he is doing everything right, communicates with me throughout the day, actually calls and doesn’t just text, makes plans & has been nothing but respectful but I feel nothing & I actually get annoyed when I see his calls & texts flash across my notifications.
I’m feeling like I’ have serious issues
Have any of y’all ever had a weird feeling about a guy that’s super nice but there is just something that is throwing you off & you can’t figure out what it is?
I’m big on using discernment but at face value he is doing everything right, communicates with me throughout the day, actually calls and doesn’t just text, makes plans & has been nothing but respectful but I feel nothing & I actually get annoyed when I see his calls & texts flash across my notifications.
I’m feeling like I’ have serious issues
Throwing you off, like something ain't right about him...if thats ur instinct, ur probably right. I think we as wonen are blessed with the gift of instinct, but a lot of times, we don't want to trust ourselves with our gut feelings. After my last situation, i will always go with my gut for now on.
I agree
@UniquelyDivine if you are annoyed because he's being consistent, then that's a problem lol. But If you sense something is off for other reasons, trust your gut. I dropped a "nice guy" when I was living in DC because I felt something was off and he showed his ass! He became verbally abusive and revealed his bitterness, and we didn't even date long
So true! I’ve struggled with listening to my gut in the past and it has always come back to bite me, with him it’s notning he has said or done but I just feel like something is weird with him. There is something controlling about him but I’ couldn’t even begin to give you an example of why I’ feel that.
I’ was allll for the consistency at first but then something shifted and I’m like ehhhh calm down sir. The one red flag I have noticed is that he goes out, a lot! He’s an older guy and he stays in the young folk spots.
Red flag for me too. Is this the guy who wanted to "call and discuss" your cancelation?I’ was allll for the consistency at first but then something shifted and I’m like ehhhh calm down sir. The one red flag I have noticed is that he goes out, a lot! He’s an older guy and he stays in the young folk spots.
I dated a "nice guy" who had a crazy temper and could get verbally abusive at times. And when I told people about it after the breakup they would say "Not him, he's so nice..."Have any of y’all ever had a weird feeling about a guy that’s super nice but there is just something that is throwing you off & you can’t figure out what it is?
I’m big on using discernment but at face value he is doing everything right, communicates with me throughout the day, actually calls and doesn’t just text, makes plans & has been nothing but respectful but I feel nothing & I actually get annoyed when I see his calls & texts flash across my notifications.
I’m feeling like I’ have serious issues
Trust your gut!!! You aren’t saying he’s boring or he is too nice, you are saying that you “feel” like something is weird about him. Trust it, trust it, trust it! Some guys DO everything right because behind the scenes they are doing bad stuff, doing everything wrong. That’s why I keep saying watch a man’s words, actions, and how you FEEL. All three need to line up in order for you to feel safe. I’d dump him and KIM.
ETA: And sounds like he is a manipulator. You are picking up that he is controlling. He is just very covert, passive aggressive about it. You have good instincts! Trust yourself. Too many men in the world to fool with one that’s giving you bad vibes.
Red flag for me too. Is this the guy who wanted to "call and discuss" your cancelation?
So so so true, a part of me feels like I’ve been conditioned to accept the “nice guy” despite this weird feeling I have about him but I’m going to let him know the deal today.
No point in wasting any more time.
Yes! That really rubbed me the wrong way, I felt like he was going to chastise & scold me about it.
This happened to me as well. I quickly stopped talking and let them speak to themselves.I dated a "nice guy" who had a crazy temper and could get verbally abusive at times. And when I told people about it after the breakup they would say "Not him, he's so nice..."
I dated a "nice guy" who had a crazy temper and could get verbally abusive at times. And when I told people about it after the breakup they would say "Not him, he's so nice..."
Does anyone have any experience "dating" a sagittarian introvert? Asking for a friend
Run. Male or female, every Sagittarius I know is insane.Does anyone have any experience "dating" a sagittarian introvert? Asking for a friend
Does anyone have any experience "dating" a sagittarian introvert? Asking for a friend
Yup...yup...and yupWomen can easily be fooled by “niceness.” But anybody can be nice. Nice is not a character trait. A serial killer can be nice. Sometimes being nice is just a tactic, a form of manipulation, a means to an end.
Yup...yup...and yup
I learned this the hard way. Ended up with a nice attentive narcissist
Run. Male or female, every Sagittarius I know is insane.
Yup...yup...and yup
I learned this the hard way. Ended up with a nice attentive narcissist
They can be very attentive too, can’t they?
in the beginning, untill that devaluation stage starts.lol
I dated a "nice guy" who had a crazy temper and could get verbally abusive at times. And when I told people about it after the breakup they would say "Not him, he's so nice..."
Run. Male or female, every Sagittarius I know is insane.
My ex is a Sagittarian introvert. Things were amazing...at first.