UniquelyDivine
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Glad you're enjoying it! Have you taken any roadtrips to nearby cities?
Noooo and I want to! I have a cousin in Houston and he’s been on my head about visiting, I need to quit playing and go.
Glad you're enjoying it! Have you taken any roadtrips to nearby cities?
Not in my area....
Noooo and I want to! I have a cousin in Houston and he’s been on my head about visiting, I need to quit playing and go.
I'm glad someone understands that feeling. I get tired of people saying it's no big deal or don't worry about it. It hurts to think you're not worth two sentences letting you know you don't want to talk even though you're worried about them or are confused.Ugh, sorry @Enyo. Like you, I have abandonment issues, so disappearing is one of the worst things you can do to me.
This was my friend's for a while, but then they realized the only way to see me was to plan an early morning or late night cardio session. I did go to happy hour tonight with my old boss, did well on food...but prolly drank a whole bottle of Pinot heheI am trying to lose weight and save money too and all my friends want to do is go eat and drink
You should definitely check Dallas out! Where are you moving to?
I’ve lost 25lbs since I’ve been here but I rarely workout so I need to at least get out the house and go to the gym.
Ohh your travel schedule is lit and weddings are always clutch for meeting potentials boo’s.
So, when I found out I got a job on another island, I expanded my Match.com profile to reach as far as Kauai, which is where my new job is located. I met what I thought was a really cool guy and we'd been talking and texting for the last 6 or 7 weeks. A few days ago, he just stopped responding to my calls and texts. Usually, we've gone no more than a day without at least saying "hello" and "how was your day", but usually we texted frequently throughout the day. Lots of flirting, talking about our lives, what's going on in the state, complaining about work, etc. I sent one text a day asking where he was for 3 days, and then I got scared. I remembered that he's on Twitter, so I checked it and he's been active for the last few days.
I sent a text saying that if he didn't want to talk to me, then I respected that, but at least let me know because I don't like to be left hanging (I have issues with being abandoned - had to go to therapy for it). He didn't respond, so I blocked him. That's my standard procedure for men who ghost me as they tend to sneak back in my life when they get super-lonely and pretend like ghosting me was no big deal. I'm a tad hurt because I thought we clicked, but it is what it is.
The issue is that I'm due to start my jobs in 3 weeks and he works in my building. Not on the same floor, but the building is quite small (like everything on Kauai). I'd honestly rather not talk to him at all since I find ghosting to be disrespectful. I'm not sure how much I should acknowledging I should do when we come across each other. Advice?
I wouldn’t even speak to him! @Enyo act like a ghost buster and just keep it moving.I'd completely ignore him unless he says something first. If he speaks first, then I'd give a real brief, dry "Hi, how are you?" (don't wait for his response) and keep it moving. No need to waste even a tiny bit of energy if you'd rather not talk to him and he ghosted you.
I’m not tired! Sounds like a lot of fun and someone enjoying the single life. I didn’t do that too much. Sounds so fun to just get up and go to different events, not be attached, and just being free..My weekend was interesting but also pretty amazing. I went to an art show in BK alone. It was a bunch of beautiful, big booty black women with natural hair.
The artist spoke and a lot of things she said resonated with me. I was so glad I came out cuz a girl was tired.
I headed up to Harlem afterwards to see my friend perform. I got there a bit early and a film was playing it was really entertaining and the discussion afterwards was inspiring.
The filmmaker knew my friend who I was coming to watch...I guess he was talking about me to him because later on in the evening he approached me.
He says, “so, you’re african american?” I say yes and he’s like “wow, the real deal!”
I’m still not sure what he meant by that but he’s Congolese and it was his first time in the U.S.
I left and went to my regular spot...and who do I see? Physician bae...with his intern. He introduced me and I talked to her a bit while he bought us both drinks
Then I left them and danced with a sexy man out of spite. 5 mins later, he’s walking out with his intern. At this point I’m ready to leave and somehow he’s back in the place again but alone. He stops me to talk but I tell him my Lyft is outside and bounce.
Sunday I went to a poetry event at the museum of sex. An associate was the organizer and I’m a fan of the featured poet so I was excited to attend. It was flipping amazing. Anyway, towards the end I see crush bae out of the corner of my eye...I pretend not to see him. When it is over he comes to me and I almost don’t know what to do with myself. Id like to believe he came because he saw me post from my ig story...but it could be because our mutual friend was performing. I ended up going out to eat with him and the crew.
He tried to set up a lunch date today but out schedules ain’t matching up.
Sorry so long but my friends are tired of me so y’all have to “listen” to me say a bunch of nothing.
I’m not dressing up this year, but I’m excited to go to the Halloween party with my kids too. When we get back home, I wanna bake cookies and watch a scary movie with them.This is a good tip. I have it bundled with my auto insurance right now and it's too high IMO.
Think I am going to dress up to go to the kiddie Halloween thing with DS. I will probably like it more than him LOL!
25 pounds and no working out?
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Lol, no judgement here. I did the same thing, but I stopped the appetite suppressants at the same time my summer travel ramped up...and I gained a lot back. I'm doing keto now (just started this week) and so far so good.I’m on a Dr supervised program, it’s basically just eating low carb & they prescribe appetite suppressants. I took the lazy way out but something had to give, I was a cheeseburger away
Lol, no judgement here. I did the same thing, but I stopped the appetite suppressants at the same time my summer travel ramped up...and I gained a lot back. I'm doing keto now (just started this week) and so far so good.
I’m not dressing up this year, but I’m excited to go to the Halloween party with my kids too. When we get back home, I wanna bake cookies and watch a scary movie with them.
Hey... what's crackin for Halloween? Parties should be happening this weekend.
I was invited to one but nahh... rather just sit with my other set of friends without the hooplah at the dinner table
Will be trick or treating Halloween night with the kiddo... her dad is coming with his gf
Oh, the antics with the ex in-laws and her. Great granny too old to pretend like she likes the former side piece turned SO . The aunts are just as... catty. Got it from their mom ! Itll make it soooooooo worth it. Trick or treat indeed.... (pettypettypettypetty)
They still shower me with love tho
How did ya'll get the appetite suppressants? I need all the help I can get LOLYea it’s getting to the point where I’ll have to stop the pills because my body is getting used to them so I’m working on incorporating working out back into my life before I stop the pills.
Out of alllll the diets I’ve ever tried in my life keto has been consistently the best!
Why is losing weight so freaking hard
I’m so sick of those! Lol we are gonna watch the Omen, or The Mist. Something that isn’t too out there for them. I watched a ton of horror movies when I was their age, but these kids are different! LolOh that sounds like fun! He's not ready for scary movies yet, but the Halloween episodes of all the Disney shows will be on LOL!
Beer crawl in DC. Son is in Philly for the weekend, I am going HAMHey... what's crackin for Halloween? Parties should be happening this weekend.
yes they are really softI’m so sick of those! Lol we are gonna watch the Omen, or The Mist. Something that isn’t too out there for them. I watched a ton of horror movies when I was their age, but these kids are different! Lol
Hey... what's crackin for Halloween? Parties should be happening this weekend.
I was invited to one but nahh... rather just sit with my other set of friends without the hooplah at the dinner table
Will be trick or treating Halloween night with the kiddo... her dad is coming with his gf
Oh, the antics with the ex in-laws and her. Great granny too old to pretend like she likes the former side piece turned SO . The aunts are just as... catty. Got it from their mom ! Itll make it soooooooo worth it. Trick or treat indeed.... (pettypettypettypetty)
They still shower me with love tho