shespoison
Well-Known Member
Deleted
Last edited:
So do tell--what are the canadian attractants vs american repellants? that's a big detail to miss!I was pleasantly surprised by how much I enjoyed my trip . I was just there to enjoy some solitude but I ended up with a couple of vacay flings . I didn't sleep with anyone, but I cuddled with two different men (kissed 3 in all) and it reminded me of how much I miss intimacy. It's crazy how much luck I have in Canada when it comes to men. Everywhere I turn there is some mutual attraction and it feels natural. The guys are drawn to the same thing that seems to repel the men down here. Back home it is a struggle in every way. I also spent 2 days in Buffalo, NY and the brothers there are FINE. Lawd, what is in the water? Location is everything.
What union should we be looking for?Ladies I hope you all do not count out construction workers. The union I work for just raised their earnings to 100.96/hr and they have a great benefits package with two pension plans & an annuity fund. If you meet a man and he says he's in construction ask what union About to get me a union worker cause I need these benefits for the rest of my life.
I can’t tell you that since most unions are regional not national.What union should we be looking for?
Ladies I hope you all do not count out construction workers. The union I work for just raised their earnings to 100.96/hr and they have a great benefits package with two pension plans & an annuity fund. If you meet a man and he says he's in construction ask what union About to get me a union worker cause I need these benefits for the rest of my life.
Oh OK. So once we find out which union they are from, how do we find out what the salary and benefits are? Is it listed on their union site? I'm in NYC.I can’t tell you that since most unions are regional not national.
Ask to see their CBA because you’re interested in a family member joining. You have to be slick in finding out that information. If you ask straight out they will assume you are digging for gold.Oh OK. So once we find out which union they are from, how do we find out what the salary and benefits are? Is it listed on their union site? I'm in NYC.
Girl, they’re taking home 95K before overtime & no degree. Some of the members don’t even work in the field, they work in the office but they get full wages.You are correct. But the blue collar/labor intensive job conversations are ones I don't bother with around here. At work, I use dozens of contractors/blue collar employees for the properties I manage. Not only do they make more than me, they have stay at home wives, and some even live in the posh neighborhoods we manage For whatever people always turn this into why do black women always have to date the trash man
Ladies I hope you all do not count out construction workers. The union I work for just raised their earnings to 100.96/hr and they have a great benefits package with two pension plans & an annuity fund. If you meet a man and he says he's in construction ask what union About to get me a union worker cause I need these benefits for the rest of my life.
That’s why folks gotta take advice from certain people with a grain of salt. A man with a trade, license, and certification is alright with me.You are correct. But the blue collar/labor intensive job conversations are ones I don't bother with around here. At work, I use dozens of contractors/blue collar employees for the properties I manage. Not only do they make more than me, they have stay at home wives, and some even live in the posh neighborhoods we manage For whatever people always turn this into why do black women always have to date the trash man
When I was in Toronto, I had like 50 tinder matches in time it took for me to ride the train from the airport into the city and check into my hotel. It was crazyI was pleasantly surprised by how much I enjoyed my trip . I was just there to enjoy some solitude but I ended up with a couple of vacay flings . I didn't sleep with anyone, but I cuddled with two different men (kissed 3 in all) and it reminded me of how much I miss intimacy. It's crazy how much luck I have in Canada when it comes to men. Everywhere I turn there is some mutual attraction and it feels natural. The guys are drawn to the same thing that seems to repel the men down here. Back home it is a struggle in every way. I also spent 2 days in Buffalo, NY and the brothers there are FINE. Lawd, what is in the water? Location is everything.
So do tell--what are the canadian attractants vs american repellants? that's a big detail to miss!
Glad you had fun and got some smooches
When I was in Toronto, I had like 50 tinder matches in time it took for me to ride the train from the airport into the city and check into my hotel. It was crazy
Thank you. I can see it. Non American men are looking for easiest angle from Point A to Point P many lose patience if you would rather unfold the possibilities rather than bust it open.Thanks!
I can't quite put my finger on it but I find that American men like women they can "figure out". If you don't fit into a box, they might be fascinated by you, but they have a hard time connecting with you. They have types-- bougie, girly, nerdy, tomboy, artsy, rebel, etc... There is little room to be a mixture of those types or someone unable to be labeled. Outside of the states, the men seem more attracted to women who go their own way. The men are more educated and adventurous, so they welcome the challenge of getting to know unique women. American culture is more serious-- we like formulas, traditions, and rituals. We go for brands, we follow trends, and everything in our lives must make sense. We are slow to accept change and innovation. I'm not sure if any of that makes sense but I feel like in the states alpha males are celebrated while in other places I see more sigmas making waves.
I be trying to tell y'all!
I can't quite put my finger on it but I find that American men like women they can "figure out" They have types-- bougie, girly, nerdy, tomboy, artsy, rebel, etc... There is little room to be a mixture of those types or someone unable to be labeled. Outside of the states, the men seem more attracted to women who go their own way. The men are more educated and adventurous, so they welcome the challenge of getting to know unique women. American culture is more serious-- we like formulas, traditions, and rituals.
Oh???
OMG this is one of my favorite movies everrrrr!!!
Goofy movie is a cinematic masterpiece as far as I’m concerned I have it proudly displayed in my movie collection.
I have I2I on my phone!Girl!! I'm 32 years old and grown and still sing every lyric to every song from this movie! It's a classic!
Gosh, it’s hard to lean back sometimes!!
Gosh, it’s hard to lean back sometimes!!
But oh so important.
What do y’all mean?
See the following threads. In them these dating/relationship gurus encourage women to lean back when a guy leans back. When a lady likes a guy who has been showing interest, and he starts to pull away or fall back, women tend to lean in, trying to recapture his attention and interest. They suggest that you lean back too, mirroring his behavior and level of interest. It’s the only way to see if he’s really interested. Also if/when he leans back, and you lean in, it sets a pattern of the woman pursuing. Someone correct me please if I’m explaining this incorrectly.
https://longhaircareforum.com/threads/katarina-phangs-dating-philosophy.820571/
https://longhaircareforum.com/threads/the-rori-raye-way.819909/
See the following threads. In them these dating/relationship gurus encourage women to lean back when a guy leans back. When a lady likes a guy who has been showing interest, and he starts to pull away or fall back, women tend to lean in, trying to recapture his attention and interest. They suggest that you lean back too, mirroring his behavior and level of interest. It’s the only way to see if he’s really interested. Also if/when he leans back, and you lean in, it sets a pattern of the woman pursuing. Someone correct me please if I’m explaining this incorrectly.
https://longhaircareforum.com/threads/katarina-phangs-dating-philosophy.820571/
https://longhaircareforum.com/threads/the-rori-raye-way.819909/