ForestRose
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Oh okay I'll have a look for the online dating thread. ThanksThere's been so many comments in this thread on dating sites. there's also an online dating support thread floating around here somewhere..m
Oh okay I'll have a look for the online dating thread. ThanksThere's been so many comments in this thread on dating sites. there's also an online dating support thread floating around here somewhere..m
Be open to every method. Never know where your man will come from. Just be presentable, friendly, smile (or send smileys online) and BLOCKED'T them when they start trying to play you.Oh okay I'll have a look for the online dating thread. Thanks
Tis cuffing season...My ex hit me up this morning. We are still cool but we only really communicate to share news or talk about production...
My homegirl also hit me up this morning telling me some man she dated 7 years ago hit her up. I told her about me ex and she said "oh, that means he j*rked off to you this morning"
Anyway, since I'm working and can't do breakfast I agreed to dinner
I don't think so. He's a grown man he doesn't even know what cuffin season is lol.Tis cuffing season...
Whew...I don't think so. He's a grown man he doesn't even know what cuffin season is lol.
Dinner was nice. He just wanted to catch up.
It was goodt. We ate and left lol. I get the "hey stranger" texts too but not from him. When we communicate it usually has a purpose so when he's like "let's grab dinner" I was thrown off. He's a good man, I wish I could give him to someone who needs himWhew...
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Most men don't unless they are super predators, trying to stay ahead of the curve. It's just a natural male dating pattern in this digital age. I say this, because I am seeing an influx of "hey big head" messages from men I new in elementary school, lol. How was the dinner?
So I'm supposed to have a date this evening but I really want to cancel it he is just so not take charge and I'm annoyed.
He text me this morning and said "what time would be a good time to meet?"
Which was fine so I suggested 6 o'clock and he said "OK that will work"
Soooooo where are we going then sir?!??
I really care about current boo, but I want him to step it up. Problem is - he can't right now. I feel like I'm being silly waiting around for what I want out of a relationship; commitment / titles does not equal stability to me. The circumstances are less than ideal, but I knew this before I verbally committed. *sigh* IDK
I hate this!
You can't even plan on what to wear if you don't know where you're going. I'd straight up just ask him and frame it as needing to know so you can properly plan your outfit. There isn't much to lose on a Monday evening date. If you're not really feeling him, suggest you all meet close to where you live. Is he fine?
@outspokenwallflower
Feel how you feel and let it out, Beautiful .
I used to think every compliment was a conspiracy... like everyone that ever called me beautiful or sweet all knew each other and knew that I was hideous and banned together to make me feel better.
Sounds nuts typing it out but it's true.
You will get exactly where you need to be. There's plenty of great reading material in this forum from the Rori Raye to the Men Don't Love Women Like You thread.
The Four Agreements is a good read that may help with comparing yourself to others. HTH!
Can I just marry The Weeknd? I love him. I saw him this past weekend and it just intensified my obsession with him. I also love how I listened to him in 2011/2012 when he was basically an unknown and remember thinking he should be more popular, now he's a big star. Yes I know he doesn't like black women. Yes I know he often looks dirty and drugged out I don't like pretty boys, anyone else like this?
Sorry for the rambling
That was me and Frank Ocean, before, well, now I protect him like a brother, lol.Can I just marry The Weeknd? I love him. I saw him this past weekend and it just intensified my obsession with him. I also love how I listened to him in 2011/2012 when he was basically an unknown and remember thinking he should be more popular, now he's a big star. Yes I know he doesn't like black women. Yes I know he often looks dirty and drugged out I don't like pretty boys, anyone else like this?
Sorry for the rambling
Right! We were supposed to actually meet up this weekend but he was so beta about it but I just never responded he's not bad looking, definitely not the finest thing walking though.
Have you thought about seeing a therapist? You may have to see a few before you find one that clicks for you, but I highly recommend it.I have horribly sh!tty self esteem. Like in the pits.
I compare myself to other women constantly, and I drown others in compliments, whereas, it's near impossible for me to accept one. When I do, I never believe it.
I need and WANT to fix this ASAP, but I don't know how... it's like one of those annoying situations where you you've taken step 1 (or step 0?) and acknowledged the problem; now it's time to take action but I don't even know where to begin. I can't see myself stepping out into the dating world if I loathe myself in anyway.
Incredibly sorry for this depressing post, I just really needed to get it out. If it's ill placed, any Moderator is free to move it please.
You could have done it yourself. It is very easy to do. I asked Bae to walk me through it but he was at the gym when I called and by the time he called me back I already did it. He even preferred the build I chose over his and switched to mine.So... the former potential was supposed to be bringing my firestick back to me on Thursday and I haven't heard from him. He was supposed to jailbreak it for me and I have no idea whether or not he did it. At this point I want to just tell him to run me my ish. I'll jailbreak it myself. I don't think he won't give it back... but, bruh.
ETA... since dating is a done deal, I don't want him to think I'm sweating him. We'll be at the same party I next weekend. I think I'll just tell him to bring it there.
You could have done it yourself. It is very easy to do. I asked Bae to walk me through it but he was at the gym when I called and by the time he called me back I already did it. He even preferred the build I chose over his and switched to mine.