AnjelLuvs
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I forget how we started following each other, but he is mostly eye candy... I usually post a picture and he will go to profile and like a couple of pictures then send DM.
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Evolving78
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Did he say anything else besides sending his number?I forget how we started following each other, but he is mostly eye candy... I usually post a picture and he will go to profile and like a couple of pictures then send DM.
AnjelLuvs
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Nope nothing, wait a heart emoji
movingforward13
I do what I want...
HIs response seemed like "I will hit her up when I have nothing else to do."
shespoison
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These ninjas are soooo annoying! This man hit me up first thing in the morning to ask me out. Thursday is the only day I'm free this week... he asked me about Friday 
I say I already have plans...cuz I do. Then this happens. I can already tell he's going to annoy me. Dumbazz
AnjelLuvs
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LMAO, sorry @shespoison, seems like he jonesing for you... He got it bad
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shespoison
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He called me at 8:30 am. He texted to ask if it was ok first, so I'll give him that.
I'm pretty sure I'm going to have to tell him I don't like him because he's annoying and doesn't know how to act...
I have zero patience for men. Lucky for him, I'm working on grace in 2017.
ScorpioBeauty09
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I told Mr Barnes & Noble I was in Hawaii for vacation and he said he didn't believe me and to send him a bikini picture. 
He's canceled. I mean he already was because he was wishy washy and said the C word--crazy ex. But I'm so done now.
He's canceled. I mean he already was because he was wishy washy and said the C word--crazy ex. But I'm so done now.JustifiablyMe
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I'm noticing an influx of men texting me Good Morning 'Queen' or How are you 'Queen'. Not sure how to feel about it. It seems very...hotepish. 
shespoison
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Simpleton and lol @ "sender not in your contacts"
Simpleton and lol @ "sender not in your contacts"
I'm so tempted to hit "Report Junk"
DarkJoy
Bent. Not Broken.
This ninja say "acting light skinned"? lord. sealed the deal, the envelope and off to the post office. no room for an idiot like that... lordt.
Right! he's a straight dummy.
DarkJoy
Bent. Not Broken.
ugh. flash back to my hotep last month. he was broke af. always trying to take me on a FREE date like walks in the park and ish... if I'm your queen treat me as such. queens don't come cheap!I'm noticing an influx of men texting me Good Morning 'Queen' or How are you 'Queen'. Not sure how to feel about it. It seems very...hotepish.
Why did I accept a date from the old #1 on my last roster? He's annoying. And I've been ignoring his calls and text messages. He asked me today if he could at least take me out for my birthday. I said yes and we chatted earlier since he was working from home. Everything was fine. Later we're texting and I'm telling him I'll be out of town this weekend and the week after next. He asked me about my plans for the end of the month and I told him I would be in the Vineyard that weekend. He starts going on and on saying he's never been because it's a waste of money and he doesn't want to be around rich snobs and all this other stupid crap. At first I ignored him. But he kept on and I'm like you've admitted to never having gone so what would you know? About the cost, about the people, about what to do there? I couldn't care less if he doesn't like the place but he clearly wanted a fight. Annoying AF. I ended up telling him forget the birthday dinner. He's annoying as hell and just wants to argue over nonsense. I dont want to be bothered with that headache on a normal day, much less on or around my birthday.
He's said something like that before, like "light skinned girls always trying to block somebody". Crazy thing is, I'm not even light skinned! I, too, have been lumped into MAC NW45!
ItsMeLilLucky
NotLucky no mo' just blessed.
Lordt, why did my mom dream I was pregnant and had a little girl? I asked her if she saw a rich husband, and she said no 
Now I gotta be celibate.
Now I gotta be celibate.
AnjelLuvs
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Going out just to go out?!
So I thought today was Thursday and I was going to be going to an event at Taj, but nope it is Wednesday... What am I to do with self?! I got self all amped up to go out after work, I look cute feel good, but feeling defeated cause it aint Thursday, LMFAO...
So I thought today was Thursday and I was going to be going to an event at Taj, but nope it is Wednesday... What am I to do with self?! I got self all amped up to go out after work, I look cute feel good, but feeling defeated cause it aint Thursday, LMFAO...
shespoison
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Bilal is having a free concert at Marcus Garvey park at 7:30...see you there or nah?
A girl I know is performing at The Edge in Harlem tonight as well. I'm not going to that but it should be nice and low key.
MzLady78
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Light skinned women have tended to be stereotyped as stuck up/thinking they're too good by ignorant negros, that's where that comes from.
That's not the first time I've heard that phrase.
I just came in here to say this is the happiest single me I have ever been in life. Why is that? It feels sooooooo good! And there are men around but I don't feel stressed. I feel free, fun and laid back. Men look at me, smile, speak and I smile and speak back. I'm not mad that I don't have a boyfriend so I'm not ignoring ugly fools wondering why the ugly ones are talking to me and not the cute ones. lol And when a cute one does come my way I'm not automatically looking at him as a potential- which I can I say I've been guilty of in the past. Sometimes men just say hi and don't want anything. Sometimes. It feels nice to feel like this. I can feel all the stress and anxiety melting away with each passing day. My interactions with men are becoming easier and I'm hoping I can bring the same attitude with me when I want to start dating again. Right now, I'm feeling good on my own.
Last night I was on the train coming home and this father and son come on the train. The train is empty and they want to stand all bunched up next to me but I don't say anything. When they were getting off they looked over at me and said good night so I looked up from my book, smiled and said good night. I can readily admit my body language and facial expressions would normally say "STAY AWAY!" The father goes beautiful smile nudging his son. lmao. The son says ok dad yes she's beautiful. We got off the same stop and the father tried to get his son to walk me home. What is this? lol I didn't know dads did the same thing moms did with trying to hook their children up. I said thank you but I live very close and the father looked disappointed and the son just wished me a safe walk home. I thought it was cute. That interaction isn't much to analyze but I've been paying close attention to my behavior and I know that a few months ago I would probably have a mean face on so they could stop talking to me. I don't feel the need to do that anymore. Look at me y'all. I'm growing.
eta: I have a story about my sister and her boyfriend and why I am encouraging her to break up with him but I'll save it for later.
Last night I was on the train coming home and this father and son come on the train. The train is empty and they want to stand all bunched up next to me but I don't say anything. When they were getting off they looked over at me and said good night so I looked up from my book, smiled and said good night. I can readily admit my body language and facial expressions would normally say "STAY AWAY!" The father goes beautiful smile nudging his son. lmao. The son says ok dad yes she's beautiful. We got off the same stop and the father tried to get his son to walk me home. What is this? lol I didn't know dads did the same thing moms did with trying to hook their children up.
I said thank you but I live very close and the father looked disappointed and the son just wished me a safe walk home. I thought it was cute. That interaction isn't much to analyze but I've been paying close attention to my behavior and I know that a few months ago I would probably have a mean face on so they could stop talking to me. I don't feel the need to do that anymore. Look at me y'all. I'm growing.eta: I have a story about my sister and her boyfriend and why I am encouraging her to break up with him but I'll save it for later.
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sgold04
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I went on a date last night and it was an amazing time. I "met" him over a year ago via a travel group we're apart of, but he lived abroad so we never met in person. We'd converse periodically and flirt, and he never gave off heaux vibes, so when he asked to see me while he was in my city I agreed. Good convo, and there was no awkward pay the bill moment. I went to the bathroom and when I returned he already requested the check and paid it. We then went to my favorite spot in the city and talked until midnight. We kissed when we parted ways 
I'm plotting a move to my second home next year, and when I brought it up, he told me how he's been on a mission to get his family in that same city because he wants to settle there...
And his money is long...
This could be something. He's smitten by me
I'm plotting a move to my second home next year, and when I brought it up, he told me how he's been on a mission to get his family in that same city because he wants to settle there...
And his money is long...
This could be something. He's smitten by me
AnjelLuvs
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Loves it! I feel the same, which is why so thirsty to get out.... So not at home wasting my makeup and cute outfit. Lol.... Want to get out to enjoy the summer...
I just came in here to say this is the happiest single me I have ever been in life. Why is that? It feels sooooooo good! And there are men around but I don't feel stressed. I feel free, fun and laid back. Men look at me, smile, speak and I smile and speak back. I'm not mad that I don't have a boyfriend so I'm not ignoring ugly fools wondering why the ugly ones are talking to me and not the cute ones. lol And when a cute one does come my way I'm not automatically looking at him as a potential- which I can I say I've been guilty of in the past. Sometimes men just say hi and don't want anything. Sometimes. It feels nice to feel like this. I can feel all the stress and anxiety melting away with each passing day. My interactions with men are becoming easier and I'm hoping I can bring the same attitude with me when I want to start dating again. Right now, I'm feeling good on my own.
Last night I was on the train coming home and this father and son come on the train. The train is empty and they want to stand all bunched up next to me but I don't say anything. When they were getting off they looked over at me and said good night so I looked up from my book, smiled and said good night. I can readily admit my body language and facial expressions would normally say "STAY AWAY!" The father goes beautiful smile nudging his son. lmao. The son says ok dad yes she's beautiful. We got off the same stop and the father tried to get his son to walk me home. What is this? lol I didn't know dads did the same thing moms did with trying to hook their children up.
eta: I have a story about my sister and her boyfriend and why I am encouraging her to break up with him but I'll save it for later.
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Evolving78
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Gurrrrllll!
Evolving78
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It seems a lot of these men don't wanna put in the work anymore, and have you chase them. They wanna play mind games, and get you all confused.
SurferBabe
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I just came in here to say this is the happiest single me I have ever been in life. Why is that? It feels sooooooo good! And there are men around but I don't feel stressed. I feel free, fun and laid back. Men look at me, smile, speak and I smile and speak back. I'm not mad that I don't have a boyfriend so I'm not ignoring ugly fools wondering why the ugly ones are talking to me and not the cute ones. lol And when a cute one does come my way I'm not automatically looking at him as a potential- which I can I say I've been guilty of in the past. Sometimes men just say hi and don't want anything. Sometimes. It feels nice to feel like this. I can feel all the stress and anxiety melting away with each passing day. My interactions with men are becoming easier and I'm hoping I can bring the same attitude with me when I want to start dating again. Right now, I'm feeling good on my own.
Last night I was on the train coming home and this father and son come on the train. The train is empty and they want to stand all bunched up next to me but I don't say anything. When they were getting off they looked over at me and said good night so I looked up from my book, smiled and said good night. I can readily admit my body language and facial expressions would normally say "STAY AWAY!" The father goes beautiful smile nudging his son. lmao. The son says ok dad yes she's beautiful. We got off the same stop and the father tried to get his son to walk me home. What is this? lol I didn't know dads did the same thing moms did with trying to hook their children up.
eta: I have a story about my sister and her boyfriend and why I am encouraging her to break up with him but I'll save it for later.
Go ahead then! I could have written that first paragraph myself. It feels grand doesn't it? Did you read the summary I typed up of Katarina's audio on High Value Women?https://longhaircareforum.com/threads/katarina-phangs-dating-philosophy.820571/page-4#post-24123125
I'm listening to the audio and reading my notes every morning until it sticks. The most liberating part of it all is that you need not do anything to be cherished by a man. Just be happy in the moment, right now, no matter your current status. Release the worry and surrender. We're exactly where we are supposed to be.
AnjelLuvs
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Still trying to figure out where to get this audio Chica. Lol
https://longhaircareforum.com/threads/katarina-phangs-dating-philosophy.820571/page-4#post-24123125
I'm listening to the audio and reading my notes every morning until it sticks. The most liberating part of it all is that you need not do anything to be cherished by a man. Just be happy in the moment, right now, no matter your current status. Release the worry and surrender. We're exactly where we are supposed to be.
AnjelLuvs
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I was thinking about the Bilal concert but I dont know any of his songs... Where is the Edge?
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