MzLady78
Well-Known Member
Yep. BW gotta stop being everybody's damn mule and Mammy. You start to lose your mind and sense of self. Its not a good look and doesn't help the community nor the individual woman move forward. Do it, say nothing to anyone about your thoughts and plans (cuz they will try and suck you back in) and KIM.
And find YOU. And I'll find me too! Everything will work out in the end!
Love the condo idea!
Dont panic! 40 is not so bad. You in the Dave Ramsey thread for debt freedom? The plan got me out of $80k debt on my 43rd bday. I posted about it in there. Not quite at 40 but I'll take it! It's possible! You can do it and be bikini ready too!
I am, but I've been struggling with my spending the last few months. I need to get more discipline. It's summer so a lot of going out. My job moving downtown where there are literally HUNDREDS of lunch options has been a problem, I have to reign that in. Cooking more often would help with both the weight and the financial goals.
That is an amazing accomplishment, good for you!
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