MzLady78
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Yikes, so glad you're alright @HappyMadison!
He seems like a good guy, I hope things continue to go well.
He seems like a good guy, I hope things continue to go well.
Yikes, so glad you're alright @HappyMadison!
He seems like a good guy, I hope things continue to go well.
@HappyMadison glad you are ok.
@HappyMadison Glad you're not seriously injured.
Thank you! I wasn't roughed up too bad, cosmetic wise. Just bruising on my knee. I having neck, back, a hip trouble. His lawyer said take advantage of it by resting, so that is what I am doing.Same. Glad you're ok @HappyMadison
This is more of a random thought, than relationship thought but we don't have such a thread, so here I am lol.
Ever since Essence Fest I have been obsessed with moving to the southern US. Living in my current city is so bizarre, it's 90+% white and I'm over it. I'm here for 3 more years because of school, but I plan to use some of my travel time to explore the US. Next up is Houston! I'm looking for a city that is BLACK, warm, has a decent male:female ratio, fun for a young professional, friendly etc... Maybe I'll start a thread in OT.
Is there anybody out there that doesn't want a romantic relationship? Doesn't wanna date either? I'm starting to get excited about my new life and I just don't see a man involved in it, I mean not in a romantic way. I finally wanna be free and not have to worry about anyone but my family. I wanna do things for myself. I used to think certain women I knew who lived like that were bitter. Yes, they got burned bad, but they are happy. i was taught through example that being alone wasn't an option. Neither one of my parents were alone for long after their divorce. I really just don't wanna be bothered anymore.
I'm going into another decade of my life and I want it to be all about ME! lol
Wow! You are so right about us, even down to your nephew! I'm in school, I'm working on my finances, I'm working on getting a new home, I have these children with special needs, I wanna get in shape, I got all of this stuff going on for myself, I don't see how somebody else fits into that.Funny how we're the same age and frequently at the same point in life.
I go back and forth, but lean towards "no" more often than not. I'm just feeling drained right now. The stuff with my ex and ole dude, man, I can't even put into words the damage those 2 have done. I don't know that I have anything left to give right now.
I'm not saying I've given up completely, and maybe I just need more time since this all just happened at the beginning of the year. But I need to focus on me right now. I'm back in school, trying to get myself straight financially, I'm concerned about my nephew as he's been recently diagnosed with Autism, I just don't have the energy for men and their nonsense.
I hope he is Fine! Lol what are you going to wear?The drought is over! I have a date this Saturday with a guy I met online. We've been talking for almost a month now, but have been unable to meet up because I've been traveling for work for the past 3 weeks. He seems sweet, but the real question is, is he cute?
I hope he is Fine! Lol what are you going to wear?
This is wonderful! You are an inspiration! I'm happy for you, and know the right one will come along in due time!I've been single now for almost 1.5 years. At times I have absolutely HATED it, and have felt incredibly lonely on a few occasions. Overall it's been really great for me though. I made major career moves, and was really able to focus during my first year of medicine. I'm moving into the most authentic version of myself and I really feel that I know me now. I took amazing care of me, and learned to really love my body. I have never felt more beautiful than I have in the past year, and I've been told that I'm glowing... I guess it's happiness. I have always had a lot of great girlfriends but this 1.5 year period has really strengthened some bonds. I live in a very white city and it's tough at times, but I have found some Black sister friends that have made this world manageable.
I travelled a lot, and met a lot of men, and I'm honing in on the qualities that I want. I reaffirmed that Black men are the prototype. I have realized that as much as I love me a Tenderoni (younger guy/early-mid 20s) they typically do not have the maturity and desire for commitment that I want. I realized how important intellectual stimulation is for me in a partner. I also realized that I need someone who consistently makes an effort to show me that I'm important. I've actually developed a little checklist to keep me accountable now when dating, because FINE, smooth-talking men are a struggle for me. Lol. I have never believed that you have to be the "perfect" woman to meet the right person; the work I have put in has been for me, because I was coming off of 5 years of mediocre love. I'm in a good place now. Totally ready for love.
Have you talked to him on the phone?Went to a small birthday party this past weekend, under 30 people. Met this guy 34, attorney, nerd and an athlete, cute, confident. I didn't dance with him. Before my first drink, four guys had already tapped me and I could see them watching me. It makes me nervous SMH. I gave him my number, though. We spent the night talking. My friend I went with was annoyed with me lol.
But the texts are very dry. And he lives all the way in Brooklyn.
Is this the guy you met a Michael's or the other guy who came to visit you on your lunch break. I'm trying to keep everybody menz straight. lolI've completely fallen for Bae #2 and IDK what to do.
I am ready to receive love.
Seriously. I am ready.
Thanks! I feel like no one hears me.Sending good vibes your way!
No, I stopped replying to the texts. They were too dry.Have you talked to him on the phone?
What is there to do? Sounds like it's too late lol.I've completely fallen for Bae #2 and IDK what to do.
I feel the same way too sometimes.Thanks! I feel like no one hears me.
I think I'm talking to one. Don't worry about it; every pot has a lid..A burn victim tried messaging me. I feel bad, but I would not want to kiss that face.
Is this the guy you met a Michael's or the other guy who came to visit you on your lunch break. I'm trying to keep everybody menz straight. lol
Lunch breakIs this the guy you met a Michael's or the other guy who came to visit you on your lunch break. I'm trying to keep everybody menz straight. lol