#1 annoyed me last night. Sometimes he acts like he doesn't remember things I've said or mentioned. That is a little annoying right but no big problem to me if they are small things. The problem is when we start talking about it to refresh his memory he'll cut me off and be like "no that's not what you said. You said...." or "that's not how it happened. It went like this..." and then I get mad because I'm like if you already know then why are we talking about it again. It's almost like he wants to see if *I* remember.
But I didn't get that at first until last night. I joked that he can't remember anything and that offended him. Then I realized that he actually does remember things. Then the next realization came that he's probably pretending not to so that he can see if I remember. It's childish and I admit as soon as I noticed this I called him on it but not very nicely.
When he got home he texted me some long message talking about I hurt his feelings and it makes him feel bad when I say he can't remember things about me because he does. But this game he's been playing has me confused. It's such a stupid little argument that I don't want to deal with. I just walked away from the argument by not responding. He called once and I didn't answer. We have dinner plans tonight but I might need to take a minute.
In other dating news #2 is still hanging around and he's good for happy hours and last minute plans but that's all. #3 (new guy) is broke but fun. So I'm going to drop him before it even starts. I have to say I'm getting a little tired and might need a break soon.
But I didn't get that at first until last night. I joked that he can't remember anything and that offended him. Then I realized that he actually does remember things. Then the next realization came that he's probably pretending not to so that he can see if I remember. It's childish and I admit as soon as I noticed this I called him on it but not very nicely.
When he got home he texted me some long message talking about I hurt his feelings and it makes him feel bad when I say he can't remember things about me because he does. But this game he's been playing has me confused. It's such a stupid little argument that I don't want to deal with. I just walked away from the argument by not responding. He called once and I didn't answer. We have dinner plans tonight but I might need to take a minute.
In other dating news #2 is still hanging around and he's good for happy hours and last minute plans but that's all. #3 (new guy) is broke but fun. So I'm going to drop him before it even starts. I have to say I'm getting a little tired and might need a break soon.