Good for you!I forgot to mention, Friday I didn't feel like going straight home so I went to one of the places @prettyinpurple mentioned a while back for happy hour. I just sat at the bar, ordered a drink and some food. At one point a guy teased me about me not liking my drink (I guess I pulled a face at one point) but I couldn't work up the courage to really flirt. Baby steps I guess! It was my first time going to a happy hour alone and it wasn't bad at all!
See that's what I want. I don't want to see anything at all. And since it stores messges it takes up memory so I have to go in the folder and delete them periodically and see all these stupid messages. Like this morning I went in there and saw a message from this idiot arse talking about "wanna kick it?" Me thinks not!I wish I had that type of block... iPhone COMPLETELY blocks texts. You could still get voicemails though if they are left.
@SurferBabe & @sgold04 your recent posts have helped me so much. Very inspiring. Y'all seem so free My friend is currently doing MWY and I'm so jealous of him haha.
My male coworker keeps asking why I won't buy a home now. Ive been in this city for 1.5 years. Next year I'll be able to work remote with my current employer or apply somewhere else and be able to be remote, so I don't think its a good idea to purchase plus I can't see myself living here and settling. It just seems so foreign to some people here. He's also always clocking my money and traveling. It's very annoying. Sorry for the rant.
See that's what I want. I don't want to see anything at all. And since it stores messges it takes up memory so I have to go in the folder and delete them periodically and see all these stupid messages. Like this morning I went in there and saw a message from this idiot arse talking about "wanna kick it?" Me thinks not!
I'm enjoying the freedom to operate in my own self-interest. There's this sentiment that if you are single you must be sitting at home miserable, or if you are active, you do it to hide your miserableness lol (I've seen this sentiment on this board often from married ladies). But it's possible to TRULY enjoy life (or be content) and still desire a partner. I think this is a difficult concept for some to grasp in a society that promotes "getting chose" as the optimal validation of a woman's worth.
People keep telling me to buy a house in TX, but I've owned a home before and it was the worst decision I've ever made. I will not do it again until 1. I know where I'll settle, and 2. I have racks on racks on racks.
What's wrong with a turkey or ham sandwich? LolIs it weird that sometimes I like to eat sandwich meat (turkey, ham, etc.) on plain bread?
I might be a little psycho. Future hubby is definitely gonna look at me a little funny
Nothing, except I literally eat just meat and bread.What's wrong with a turkey or ham sandwich? Lol
Nothing, except I literally eat just meat and bread.
#dontjudgeme
That's a sandwich sis.... am I missing something ?
I thought people added condiments like cheese, lettuce, tomatoes, etcThat's a sandwich sis.... am I missing something ?
I thought people added condiments like cheese, lettuce, tomatoes, etc
I thought people added condiments like cheese, lettuce, tomatoes, etc
Rather than think you are overreacting... can you accept his apology and move on?Thing is my petty is on a 10 today and I'm not feeling him. I don't like how he handled the situation. Am I overreacting here?
*hugs*I haaaaaave to stop overthinking things. This may be the 1st relationship that I self sabotage. And its not really officially until we atleast 6 months in. Otherwise this was just a trial run.
I can because I wasn't really that bothered by it. I'm more bothered by his reaction. And I feel like that's what he should be apologizing for if anything. (Told you my petty is on 10 ) And I think sometimes that's what men don't understand. Most of time what they do is more annoying than anything else. It's their responses and reactions that usually make me mad. But I can definitely move on from this.Rather than think you are overreacting... can you accept his apology and move on?
i would consider it a yellow flag and see how he responds to being corrected in other situations.I can because I wasn't really that bothered by it. I'm more bothered by his reaction. And I feel like that's what he should be apologizing for if anything. (Told you my petty is on 10 ) And I think sometimes that's what men don't understand. Most of time what they do is more annoying than anything else. It's their responses and reactions that usually make me mad. But I can definitely move on from this.
The last time a man asked me that I didn't answer. A few months later he engaged to someone else. He really wanted to be married.So Lee randomly asked me if I like round or square stones.... Huh sir? He said he was just curious....
I have prophetic dreams about my relationships with people.
It is always bad news. I spoke to a dude I dealt with off and on for a year or more....I had a dream about him but didn't mention it to him. Oddly enough, he told me he had a dream about me. Our dreams were pretty much the same.
I told him that all it means is that he is seeing someone else and my presence was the reason it wasn't progressing. He didn't say anything.
Fast forward to today....I texted him about something unrelated and he said what I told him about the dream days ago had been bothering him. Bothering him because it's true.
I didn't not even deal with him like that but hearing it made my chest hurt. I blocked him...I'm not going to stick around and wait for the fre to manifest.
F$@@&%* Nigerian men!
At least he was always honest unlike the rest.
Do you know if he was seeing someone else seriously? How serious was this relationship between the two of you off and on? Some disagree, but most men are always seeing someone else to some degree. Unlike us, they are never fully single, which is why women should keep a roster until engagement (per that other thread ).
Sounds like there were other things that didn't sit right with you which lead to the dream.
It wasn't that he was seeing someone else in the dream. It's how he treated me because of her. Shiiiz I'm seeing other people and we are no where near serious and haven't been in a long while. And he treated me like shizzzz in his dream too. Like, wtf is that? And for him to tell me?
Wow. Why didn't you answer? (if not too personal).The last time a man asked me that I didn't answer. A few months later he engaged to someone else. He really wanted to be married.