MzLady78
Well-Known Member
I don't really know how to handle this.
So I'm about to book my birthday trip. I've been saying since me and my sis went 5 year ago that I was going to go back to Isla Mujeres, Mexico for my 40th birthday, which is in 8 months. The place I'm going to stay is a small BnB with only 6 rooms, and the room I want is the only one with 2 separate bedrooms (it'll be me and my sis) so I want it lock it in now. I had invited 3 of my female cousins when I first decided I wanted to go. My male cousin wasn't in Boston at the time but he's back with his wife and kids and we've gotten close again, I'd consider him my favorite cousin. I want to invite him, but I don't want him to bring his wife. I don't have a problem with her at all, but I don't want this to be a couples thing. My sister isn't bringing her husband, one cousin who is married never travels with her husband so I know that's not an issue. My other cousin has an SO but I'm slightly less worried about her feeling like he needs to come (this could potentially be a problem, though, I know that).
I'm not at all trying to be selfish because I don't have an SO, but it's just not what I want. I want to have a good time with my sister and cousins. Am I wrong?
So I'm about to book my birthday trip. I've been saying since me and my sis went 5 year ago that I was going to go back to Isla Mujeres, Mexico for my 40th birthday, which is in 8 months. The place I'm going to stay is a small BnB with only 6 rooms, and the room I want is the only one with 2 separate bedrooms (it'll be me and my sis) so I want it lock it in now. I had invited 3 of my female cousins when I first decided I wanted to go. My male cousin wasn't in Boston at the time but he's back with his wife and kids and we've gotten close again, I'd consider him my favorite cousin. I want to invite him, but I don't want him to bring his wife. I don't have a problem with her at all, but I don't want this to be a couples thing. My sister isn't bringing her husband, one cousin who is married never travels with her husband so I know that's not an issue. My other cousin has an SO but I'm slightly less worried about her feeling like he needs to come (this could potentially be a problem, though, I know that).
I'm not at all trying to be selfish because I don't have an SO, but it's just not what I want. I want to have a good time with my sister and cousins. Am I wrong?