LovinLea
Well-Known Member
I go back online and the same people from months ago and last year are there. And they are messaging me as if it's the first tune we are speaking.
Same!
I go back online and the same people from months ago and last year are there. And they are messaging me as if it's the first tune we are speaking.
O.m.g!Same!
It's awfully dreary in here :/ I understand the despair, I've been there, but c'mon ladies! This is the time in our lives we get to be completely selfish and do whatever the *** we want! (Unless you have kids...but even then, you can kinda do selfish things sometimes maybe? I dunno).
He copies and pastes these essays but if you're going to do that at least make them good enough to actually attract women. Smh!O.m.g!
I almost cursed him out 3 days ago! I matched with him and he sent some long message about wanting a freak and blah blah blah. I responded that "I rolled my eyes so hard I almost fell asleep" he asked why and I said....why are you sending essays? Why are you mentioning wanting a freak? If I met you at a bar would you say his to me?
He said yea and I unmatched him. He's gross...funny enough we have friends in common
Oh yeah, I'm not saying it's not ok to feel these things. We all do. And I no longer try to mask the pain or use damaging coping mechanisms, just feel it and reflect. I just noticed that the comments recently have been consistently pessemistic and I wanted to add a positive perspective. I know some excruciatingly unhappy couples who stay together because of this fear of being single, and how our culture views singles, particularly women. So while I desire a partnership, I'd rather be content and alone than be in those situations. I realized a lot of the issues I have won't be "fixed" with a mate, even an awesome one. So I'm doing things that make me happy and foster wellness. I'll have moments of sadness and loneliness, but those moments are increasingly less frequent, or they last for shorter periods of time.Sometimes it's like that. And I think that's ok. It's good to be honest about what you're feeling. Feel it, acknowledge it and then feel better. Just a couple weeks ago I was in here reading all the good news and singing the living single theme song. Lol all the sadness eventually passes.
Oh yeah, I'm not saying it's not ok to feel these things. We all do. And I no longer try to mask the pain or use damaging coping mechanisms, just feel it and reflect. I just noticed that the comments recently have been consistently pessemistic and I wanted to add a positive perspective. I know some excruciatingly unhappy couples who stay together because of this fear of being single, and how our culture views singles, particularly women. So while I desire a partnership, I'd rather be content and alone than be in those situations. I realized a lot of the issues I have won't be "fixed" with a mate, even an awesome one. So I'm doing things that make me happy and foster wellness. I'll have moments of sadness and loneliness, but those moments are increasingly less frequent, or they last for shorter periods of time.
You are my people. I have no problem calling the guys out who send me the exact same messages word for word weeks later.Same!
Fools.You are my people. I have no problem calling the guys out who send me the exact same messages word for word weeks later.
Didn't know you were here already. Welcome!Made it through my first week in Dallas and I feel like I've been here forever! It's been a pretty seamless transition.
I went out with my homeboy last night and met a few ballers, one was sweet as pie but oogly He told me to call him so he can introduce me to the movers and shakers around the city. This summer is going to be lit
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My tinder date was so cute. I brought him to my favorite spot because he said he didn't know what afrobeat was. We ended up hanging out until 5 am and even though we drank a lot he didn't try any funny stuff.
He sent me a message today saying that he liked me and would like to see me again. I like him too but I'm not sure he is someone I should date. I'm just enjoying getting to know someone new.
Didn't know you were here already. Welcome!
I'm so excited for you!Made it through my first week in Dallas and I feel like I've been here forever! It's been a pretty seamless transition.
I went out with my homeboy last night and met a few ballers, one was sweet as pie but oogly He told me to call him so he can introduce me to the movers and shakers around the city. This summer is going to be lit
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Living vicariously through youYes ma'am, fresh off the boat last week. Thank you!
I'm so excited for you!
Living vicariously through you