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Is he paying for the trip in its entirety?
He is. Talking about you remember I'm a gentleman I've got the money if you've got the time. He's begging now. Talking about he needs to go some place warm. Told him I would think about it so he could stop. Lol We'll see what happens.
SlimPickinz
Summer where are you?
Begging is such a turnoff.
lavaflow99
In search of the next vacation
Yeah begging is annoying. Could you get separate rooms?
Girl, I am trying to find a way to make this work best for you.
Hawaii is super expensive! The flight alone is almost $1000 so we want you to reap as much as you can from this man since he wants to be so generous.
Girl, I am trying to find a way to make this work best for you.
Hawaii is super expensive! The flight alone is almost $1000 so we want you to reap as much as you can from this man since he wants to be so generous.Yeah begging is annoying. Could you get separate rooms?
Girl, I am trying to find a way to make this work best for you.
Right! That was my reason for declining saying it's too expensive and he said he would pay. Lol He has a timeshare and it's a 2 bedroom villa so I can be on my own if it came down to it. I'm not opposed to sharing a bed tho because he's very skilled in every single way in that area. But dude is a needy mess. If I can avoid long term drama I would jump at the chance.
lavaflow99
In search of the next vacation
Dang! Why does he have to be a needy mess? 
That's unfortunate because you could have gotten serviced in ALL departments.....a free vacation in paradise, a full belly of 3 course meals, a happy vagina...
Maybe give him some ground rules? Or he is beyond help?
That's unfortunate because you could have gotten serviced in ALL departments.....a free vacation in paradise, a full belly of 3 course meals, a happy vagina...
Maybe give him some ground rules? Or he is beyond help?
outspokenwallflower
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Nevermind
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SUPER SWEET
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Sometimes the lies are outrageous
hopeful
Well-Known Member
@KammyGirl
I wouldn't go anywhere with him if I were you.
I wouldn't go anywhere with him if I were you.
He had issues that he needed to work out. I don't know if he has but inviting me like this makes me think not. So maybe beyond help?Dang! Why does he have to be a needy mess?
That's unfortunate because you could have gotten serviced in ALL departments.....a free vacation in paradise, a full belly of 3 course meals, a happy vagina...
Maybe give him some ground rules? Or he is beyond help?
LovinLea
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Doesn't sound worth it to me. I wouldn't go to the corner store with a desperate, needy man I haven't seen in two years much less a tropical oasis.
But I'm jealous that you at least get these type of offers.
lavaflow99
In search of the next vacation
Yeah, if you are having reservations, no need to entertain him.
Issues like that (ie. profound neediness) can destroy a vacation and make it a waste of your time. We tried oh!
Browndilocks
Browndisha Brownie Sundae
SIGH.... I'm about to break up with one of my homegirls. I'm so tired of her hood drama. It sucks but we're just not on the same level and it's draining. I want more for her than she wants for herself.
UniquelyDivine
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I decided that I'm going to move to Dallas next month, I don't care if I don't have a job.
I'm going to take a leap of faith, I'll work at Wal-Mart if I have to. I just got to get out of here, there is no upward mobility here & it's making me miserable.
I'm going to take a leap of faith, I'll work at Wal-Mart if I have to. I just got to get out of here, there is no upward mobility here & it's making me miserable.
outspokenwallflower
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Disregard!
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RoundEyedGirl504
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Dallas has hella jobs you will be on your feet quickly.
UniquelyDivine
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quirkydimples
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It's true. Come on down!That's what everyone keeps telling me! I'm out in 3 weeks
quirkydimples
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I've got date #3 with my #2 guy this weekend. #1 messaged me today...meh.
UniquelyDivine
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Are you originally from Dallas? Part of my motivation is the increase of black men, I won't front. What is your opinion of the men folk there?
ms.tatiana
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As anyone ever asked a guy why it didn't work out? Like maybe an ex or even a guy you went out on a few dates with?
LBoogie85
Active Member
I haven't but I do remember reading on some male blog (maybe Very Smart Bros or BGAE) that it's a pointless question because men won't tell you the truth.
The example used was a girl that the guy used to date (fwb) whom he told that he didn't want a relationship. But of course he got into a relationship with someone else and the fwb wanted to know why he didn't choose her. He made up some lie but the real reason was he didn't like her like that and didn't see a future with her. He spared her feelings bc he didn't want to be an ass and he said most men would do the same.
No. Most of the time I already know why. And for the cases where things ended on a good note, we just weren't right for each other (personality, beliefs, etc.)
So you're really liking #2 I see.
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ms.tatiana
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@LBoogie85 this is exactly what I keep hearing like it's pointless to ask because for the most part your not going to get the truth. Just mind on.
@KammyGirl see but sometimes you don't know why & you wanna understand like can we be adults & talk about this. But my friend said more than likely you will be ignored.
@KammyGirl see but sometimes you don't know why & you wanna understand like can we be adults & talk about this. But my friend said more than likely you will be ignored.
quirkydimples
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I've been here since the 90's. I'm just now back on the market after 12 years, so I'm not sure about the quality.
quirkydimples
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Yes. He's about to drop me back home. #1 could feel that I wasn't feeling him. He texted me to ask if I wanted to see him again because the end of our date felt like a goodbye. I'm about to text him and tell him it's a no for me. Nice guy. No chemistry.
MzLady78
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So I'm back home. Booo....
I think there may be some truth to that saying about the best way to get over a man.
I feel... freer. I really had myself convinced that I would never be as attracted to someone again as I was to ole boy, and nobody else would be as good. Wrong on both accounts. I think that was all I needed to be ok. I know I just got home and I'm still on a bit of a high from everything, but I feel much differently about things than I did before I left.
I think there may be some truth to that saying about the best way to get over a man.
I feel... freer. I really had myself convinced that I would never be as attracted to someone again as I was to ole boy, and nobody else would be as good.
Wrong on both accounts. I think that was all I needed to be ok. I know I just got home and I'm still on a bit of a high from everything, but I feel much differently about things than I did before I left.Sounds like you needed that vaca. I'm glad you're feeling better.So I'm back home. Booo....
I think there may be some truth to that saying about the best way to get over a man.
I feel... freer. I really had myself convinced that I would never be as attracted to someone again as I was to ole boy, and nobody else would be as good.
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