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hopeful
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Yikes! He's barely legal.
qchelle
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I'm just gonna start showing up when I'm too drunk to drive home
Oh lord
knock real hard 
silverbuttons
Not Impressed
Wait... you said he was 7 years younger than you.. that makes him 17, right? 
This man is terrible at making plans. Im this close to telling him we need to be friends.
This man is terrible at making plans. Im this close to telling him we need to be friends.
rafikichick92
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Wait... you said he was 7 years younger than you.. that makes him 17, right?
This man is terrible at making plans. Im this close to telling him we need to be friends.
He's an old 18 about to have a birthday. We are *almost* 7 years apart, not a full seven.
In other news, personal trainer's cousin and I are going to do a call tomorrow because I've been too busy with work to talk til now.
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lavaflow99
In search of the next vacation
So I googled this man I met in Eataly and he's a pretty big deal I guess. VP of sales or something or other for a major food company. I do not find him attractive at all. But yeah I'm gonna go ahead and call him at the end of the week anyway.
If he spoils you and treats you as the prize, the attraction will come
UniquelyDivine
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Ohhhh yea...ok
I get it now. I had a little young tender I was dealing with (still do sometimes ) He's technically grown but I still feel some kinda way, I can't imagine how I would've felt if he told me he was that young. You'll find another boo thang that catches your attention
**SaSSy**
3rd Big Chop on 7/18/2016
I'm currently at a place in life, that if I can't get at least half of what I want from a partner with honesty, loyalty and the maturity that comes with being in a relationship, I do not want it.
I have been there, and done everything imaginable (before and during the era of social media) that if it's half-ass, I don't want it!
I have been there, and done everything imaginable (before and during the era of social media) that if it's half-ass, I don't want it!
ms.tatiana
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So a male co worker and I became good friends, & he told me that he would like to introduce me to 1 of his friends because he thinks we would click. So I agreed and I have a dinner date this Wednesday.
NinaShamone
N’Jadaka Baby Mama
What a cute message he sent.
crlsweetie912
Well-Known Member
That is really cute.....
Aww have fun on the date. Have you seen pics of him?
So someone I used to know from my SB days is in town this week. Since I have nothing better to do I'll be going out with him tonight. He knows I'm trying to find something permanent and he knows this is just a friendly dinner. But he still better not show up empty handed.
ms.tatiana
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Yes I have. & he is fine. So I can't wait until tomorrow night.
CarmelCupcake
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What are SB days?
FelaShrine
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Damn straight he better not show up empty handed. he should know the deal 
movingforward13
I do what I want...
Sugar Baby... (???)
Well that was a short dinner. I didn't like the place and dinner was gross. Cocktails were good though. I was so disagreeable and grouchy tonight. I better get my head on straight if I'm trying to start dating again. On my way home and feeling in an even more funky mood because traffic is bad.
@CarmelCupcake @movingforward13
Yeah. Those days are LONG over for me. This was long before Instagram modeling was a thing.
@CarmelCupcake @movingforward13
Yeah. Those days are LONG over for me. This was long before Instagram modeling was a thing.
movingforward13
I do what I want...
Same here. Me now compared to who I USE to be- two totally different people. New York was my playground. The men up there loved interracial dating and were very generous. I just wasn't attracted to them to want something serious and definitely wasn't trying to be someone's wife. Fun and games, money and trips...
It is funny how I mentally blocked all that out- I go in those threads about pimping men and everything is foreign to me now... but 10 - 12 years ago I was the one picking up $800, $1500, two stacks at Western Union and given money to go to Cancun. I had a colorful life back then.
@ms.tatiana I'm here for deets on your date. Have fun tonight!
UniquelyDivine
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I have a date on Saturday but I'm not really excited about it, he took way too long to ask me out and now I feel like he'll probably be placed in my friend zone, but we shall see.
UniquelyDivine
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I have.....it took me a little while to take him serious but once I realized he's just as/more mature as the men that are my age I got over it.
Right. That's exactly it. I have a hard time taking them seriously. And once I realize that they aren't too immature then I always find a reason not to like them. Like a guy I met recently. A friend of a friend. I could tell he was interested but he's 2 years younger even though no one would guess or even care. But it bothered me so much that all his flaws stuck out to me. He's pretentious as hell and a little arrogant too and it isn't sexy on him. I don't like this one in general but I'm just trying to make sure I keep my eyes open and don't do this to men that are actually interesting and nice. I usually date older (much older) so I also have a hard time with men even a couple years older than me but younger has definitely always been seen as a big fat NO.
quirkydimples
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My Saturday night date and I have been talking almost everyday...while I continue to scroll through the undesirables on the dating websites I signed up for. I'm not a talk on the phone person, but we've been having good conversations.
I haven't talked to my Saturday afternoon date since we made the plans.
I haven't talked to my Saturday afternoon date since we made the plans.
My longest and most serious relationship was with a guy 2 years younger than me
DarkJoy
Bent. Not Broken.
Yea. idk why a year or 2 is a big deal especially after a certain age. was with my ex husband 20 years and he was a year younger. dated a few others after. I'll date no more than 5 years down and 7 years up.
shespoison
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I have been single for over a year now. For some reason, over the past year I have ONLY dated West African men. One (or more)for each season 
I need to stay out of Harlem.
I love them. They all were beautiful, intelligent and hardworking. They also had so many options and seemed to be annoyed when they found out I have even more.
I'm tired of having a new bae every few months. I'm tired of running into them everywhere I go. I just one want bae who won't act a fool and embarrass me in these streets.
I need to stay out of Harlem.I love them. They all were beautiful, intelligent and hardworking. They also had so many options and seemed to be annoyed when they found out I have even more.
I'm tired of having a new bae every few months. I'm tired of running into them everywhere I go. I just one want bae who won't act a fool and embarrass me in these streets.
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